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	<title type="text">Julia Rubin | Vox</title>
	<subtitle type="text">Our world has too much noise and too little context. Vox helps you understand what matters.</subtitle>

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			<title type="html"><![CDATA[Everything old is new again]]></title>
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			<updated>2023-05-19T06:30:42-04:00</updated>
			<published>2023-05-19T06:30:40-04:00</published>
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							<summary type="html"><![CDATA[We&#8217;re in a cultural moment where it feels like so much is being rehashed, repackaged, and resold to a captive audience. This is certainly the case in entertainment, where the Hollywood reboot machine is the driving force behind what makes it to our screens; even &#8220;original&#8221; programming is frequently built from familiar storytelling tropes and [&#8230;]]]></summary>
			
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<p>We&rsquo;re in a cultural moment where it feels like so much is being rehashed, repackaged, and resold to a captive audience. This is certainly the case in entertainment, where the Hollywood reboot machine is the driving force behind what makes it to our screens; even &ldquo;original&rdquo; programming is frequently built from familiar storytelling tropes and formats. The same kind of recycling &mdash; sorry, <em>remixing</em> &mdash; holds true in pop music.</p>

<p>This carries over into matters of business and politics with just as much resonance. And when it comes to lifestyle topics like dieting, parenting, and even sex, we wind up circling the drain and repackaging old trends and ideas as hot new fads, too.</p>

<p>What makes newness, or novelty, or originality, so important in the first place, particularly in a society that heavily prioritizes individual comfort and choices? Are we in a uniquely not-new moment, or has it actually always felt this way?</p>
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<p>Could we ever really tell a new story about a very old mermaid?</p>

<p><em>By Alissa Wilkinson</em></p>
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<p>How today&rsquo;s fight over pornography is rooted in a 40-year-old feminist schism.</p>

<p><em>By&nbsp;Constance Grady</em></p>
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<p>The endless cycling &mdash; and recycling &mdash; of parenting advice.</p>

<p><em>By&nbsp;Anna North</em></p>
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<p>When you democratize finance, you get the good and the bad.</p>

<p><em>By&nbsp;Emily Stewart</em></p>
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<p>Self-improvement is old. What&rsquo;s new is the bootstrapping mythos and toxic positivity of the very rich.</p>

<p><em>By&nbsp;Whizy Kim</em></p>
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<p><strong>CREDITS</strong></p>

<p><strong>Editors:&nbsp;</strong>Meredith Haggerty, Alanna Okun, Lavanya Ramanathan, Julia Rubin<br><strong>Copy editors/fact-checkers:</strong>&nbsp;Elizabeth Crane, Kim Eggleston, Tanya Pai, Caitlin PenzeyMoog<br><strong>Additional fact-checking: </strong>Anouck Dussaud, Matt Giles<br><strong>Art direction:&nbsp;</strong>Dion Lee, Paige Vickers<br><strong>Audience:</strong>&nbsp;Gabriela Fernandez, Shira Tarlo, Agnes Mazur<br><strong>Production/project editors:</strong>&nbsp;Lauren Katz, Nathan Hall</p>

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			<title type="html"><![CDATA[Changes at The Goods]]></title>
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			<updated>2023-03-06T10:22:24-05:00</updated>
			<published>2023-03-06T10:22:22-05:00</published>
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							<summary type="html"><![CDATA[In 2018, Vox launched The Goods as a section devoted to consumerism, covering everything from fashion to travel to food to labor. Today, Vox is saying goodbye to The Goods&#8217; branding; what we are not saying goodbye to is the excellent coverage we previously would have deemed &#8220;Goodsy,&#8221; from all of your favorite reporters.&#160; The [&#8230;]]]></summary>
			
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<p>In 2018, Vox launched The Goods as a section devoted to consumerism, covering everything from fashion to travel to food to labor. Today, Vox is saying goodbye to The Goods&rsquo; branding; what we are <em>not</em> saying goodbye to is the excellent coverage we previously would have deemed &ldquo;Goodsy,&rdquo; from all of your favorite reporters.&nbsp;</p>

<p>The work the Goods team has done over the past five years has become ever more essential to and integrated with the larger Vox brand. We&rsquo;ve also heard survey feedback that audiences find Vox&rsquo;s sub-brands confusing, so this change will help us more clearly communicate what Vox offers our audience.</p>

<p>If you subscribe to the <a href="https://www.vox.com/pages/goods-newsletter-signup">Goods newsletter</a>, you&rsquo;ll still get the weekly digest, with even more great stuff from our wider culture team. Culture at Vox means <a href="https://www.vox.com/money">consumer culture</a> (what you came to love and expect from The Goods), but also <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture">entertainment coverage</a>, <a href="https://www.vox.com/even-better">service pieces</a>, and reporting on so many aspects of how we live today. You&rsquo;ll also still get <a href="https://www.vox.com/authors/rebecca-jennings">Rebecca Jennings&rsquo;s internet culture column</a> in your inbox twice a month.</p>

<p>Thanks so much for reading our work these past many years &mdash;&nbsp;here&rsquo;s to many more!</p>
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			<title type="html"><![CDATA[What’s so funny?]]></title>
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			<updated>2022-12-21T07:56:53-05:00</updated>
			<published>2022-12-19T06:20:05-05:00</published>
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							<summary type="html"><![CDATA[Everyone knows that the easiest way to kill a joke is to try to explain it. But we here at Vox love nothing more than to explain, and when it comes to what makes us laugh, there&#8217;s a lot to dig into beyond punchlines and bad puns. We decided to spend this month exploring what [&#8230;]]]></summary>
			
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<p>Everyone knows that the easiest way to kill a joke is to try to explain it. But we here at Vox love nothing more than to explain, and when it comes to what makes us laugh, there&rsquo;s a lot to dig into beyond punchlines and bad puns. We decided to spend this month exploring what it means to be funny: what kind of power humor bestows or takes away, how it shapes and reflects who we are, and who gets to wield it in the first place.</p>

<p>We&rsquo;ve got a (sometimes hilarious! definitely insightful!) lineup that ranges from a cover story on the scientific underpinnings of humor to a full-on taxonomy of millennial cringe, plus a look at the so-called humor gender gap and an examination of why neither the left nor the right is actually all that funny. Also, can jokes save a business? Can they save <em>you</em>?</p>

<p>Go on, dive in, have a laugh or two. Just remember: It&rsquo;s important to take humor seriously, whether you LOL, LMAO, ROFL, or hehehe.</p>

<p>&mdash;<a href="https://www.vox.com/authors/julia-rubin">Julia Rubin</a> (Editorial Director, Culture &amp; Features)</p>
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<p>How studying what tickles our funny bone can help explain who we are.</p>

<p><em>By Allie Volpe</em></p>
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<p>Remember when &ldquo;epic bacon&rdquo; was the height of comedy?</p>

<p><em>By Rebecca Jennings</em></p>
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<p>Why liberals and conservatives don&rsquo;t get each other&rsquo;s jokes.</p>

<p><em>By Constance Grady</em></p>
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<p>The world doesn&rsquo;t make it easy for us to crack a joke.</p>

<p><em>By Aubrey Hirsch</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/24296357/Vox_MemeStockCraze_v01_ag_05.png?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="" title="" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Alex Gilbeaux for Vox" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/23482690/amc-gamestop-stock-ape-ryan-cohen-adam-aron-reddit?itm_campaign=hldec22&#038;itm_medium=article&#038;itm_source=landing-page-toc"><strong>Meme stocks and the limits of being in on the joke</strong></a></h2>
<p>Did meme status save GameStop and AMC, or did it turn them into zombies?</p>

<p><em>By Emily Stewart</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/24296361/Voc_HumorAsArmor_v02_ag.png?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="" title="" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Alex Gilbeaux for Vox" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/23482684/ashley-ray-comedian-essay-dad-funeral-theater-camp?itm_campaign=hldec22&#038;itm_medium=article&#038;itm_source=landing-page-toc"><strong>When humor becomes armor</strong></a></h2>
<p>Comedian Ashley Ray on grief, theater camp, and learning to make herself laugh first.</p>

<p><em>By Ashley Ray</em></p>
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<p><strong>CREDITS</strong><br><strong>Editors:&nbsp;</strong><a href="https://www.vox.com/authors/melinda-fakuade">Melinda Fakuade</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.vox.com/authors/meredith-haggerty">Meredith Haggerty</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.vox.com/authors/alanna-okun">Alanna Okun</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.vox.com/authors/lavanya-ramanathan">Lavanya Ramanathan</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.vox.com/authors/julia-rubin">Julia Rubin</a><br><strong>Copy editors:</strong>&nbsp;Kim Eggleston, Elizabeth Crane, Caitlin PenzeyMoog, Tanya Pai<br><strong>Art direction:&nbsp;</strong>Dion Lee<br><strong>Audience:</strong>&nbsp;Gabriela Fernandez, Shira Tarlo, Agnes Mazur, Mary Perkins<br><strong>Production/project editors:</strong>&nbsp;Susannah Locke, Nathan Hall</p>
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<p>This year was very long. This year was very hard. And yet this year was not without its moments of joy.</p>

<p>Some of that joy came from the culture we consumed. Books, movies,&nbsp;TV&nbsp;shows, podcasts, TikToks, YouTube videos, poems, music, video games, comics &mdash; all of these forms can provide comfort, escape, even a way to confront and process a world that frequently feels as if it is falling apart.</p>

<p>So as 2020 draws to a close, I&rsquo;ve asked members of Vox staff to reveal the cultural works that brought them joy this year. Here, in no particular order, are lots of things we watched, read, and listened to in 2020 that brought us joy. We hope they bring you joy, too.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Jen Trolio, culture editor</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives </em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Bacon BBQ Brisket Cheeseburger | Diners, Drive-ins and Dives with Guy Fieri | Food Network" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/1gqTWx7uehM?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>When I was a little kid, I was transfixed by infomercials. Their relentless optimism drew me in: If only you had this one kitchen gadget, so many of life&rsquo;s problems would melt away. It was just weirdly, and mindlessly, comforting knowing these products existed, and that they were so beloved, however cartoonishly.</p>

<p>Today, reruns of the long-running Food Network show <em>Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives</em> scratches a similar itch. It&rsquo;s structured a bit like an infomercial. What is it selling? Flavor! Where can you get flavor? All over this country! It has an over-the-top pitchman &mdash; Guy Fieri &mdash; compelling us to get in on the action. It even features testimonials in which regular people (i.e., diners) talk about how much they love their local flavor. Like an infomercial, the show is unfailingly positive. Fieri never criticizes anything he tastes, even when the look on his face suggests he didn&rsquo;t totally love what he bit into.</p>

<p>On Fridays, the Food Network often airs back-to-back episodes of the show, nonstop, between 1 pm and 4:30 am (you read that right &mdash; <a href="https://www.foodnetwork.com/shows/tv-schedule.2020.12.25.EST">a nearly 16-hour block</a>). So it&rsquo;s always there after a long workweek, for however long I care to watch. Watching during the pandemic, there has been a little twinge in the back of my mind, reminding me that some of these wonderful establishments, or places like them, might be shutting down. But I know there will be some, still, waiting at the end of all this horror. And that&rsquo;s hope I can feel. Flavortown is America. Flavortown awaits!</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Brian Resnick, senior science reporter</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Misfits</em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Misfits - Series Trailer | Hulu" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/VsBYXLYNZlE?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1548850/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0"><em>Misfits</em></a> is a messy, unapologetically profane UK teen show from 2009 that takes a giddy joy in everyday squalor, and I could not stop watching it this year. It deals with a group of young offenders who acquire supremely terrible superpowers while performing their court-mandated community service: the ability to read minds, but only when other people are thinking shit about you; the ability to rewind time whenever you feel regret, but then you find yourself unable to break up with your girlfriend because every time you try, she starts crying and you uncontrollably rewind time.</p>

<p>Its charismatic young cast is <a href="https://www.vox.com/2016/7/25/12148370/misfits-cast-iwan-rheon-ruth-negga-joseph-gilgun">stacked with future stars</a> (<em>Umbrella Academy</em>&rsquo;s Robert Sheehan, <em>Game of Thrones</em>&rsquo; Iwan Rheon, <em>Lovesick</em>&rsquo;s Antonia Thomas), and it&rsquo;s a pure joy to watch them all roll their eyes about how stopping one episode&rsquo;s zombie plague is going to be a real pain in the ass because of all the blood they&rsquo;ll have to clean up. More than any other show I&rsquo;ve seen, <em>Misfits</em> captures how blindingly absurd and petty the apocalypse turns out to be. Which made it the perfect show for 2020. (<em>Misfits </em>is streaming on Hulu.)</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Constance Grady, book critic</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>We Ride Upon Sticks</em> by Quan Barry</h2><img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/22199974/werideuponsticks.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="The cover of the novel We Ride Upon Sticks by Quan Barry." title="The cover of the novel We Ride Upon Sticks by Quan Barry." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Pantheon" />
<p>Every time I picked up a book this year, the world, the pandemic, whatever, always crept in around the edges. What I wanted was an escape, a real one, and I finally found it in a place I thought I&rsquo;d never want to see again: high school.</p>

<p>Or, at least the high school Quan Barry creates in her novel <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/we-ride-upon-sticks/9781524748098"><em>We Ride Upon Sticks</em></a>. The book follows members of a field hockey team in Danvers, Massachusetts, the home of the accusations that led to the Salem witch trials. It&rsquo;s about 300 or so years later, the team is terrible, and so they turn to the dark side for some help winning the 1989 state championship. The dark side, by the way, involves each player signing an Emilio Estevez notebook and tying a torn blue sock around their arms.&nbsp;</p>

<p>The book shifts perspectives throughout, with different players telling different parts of the story. The individual characters all embody high school archetypes &mdash; the rich girl, the slacker, the smart one &mdash; but Barry gives richness to each of them, and, in the end, none of the storylines play out quite as expected. The book captures with aching precision the struggle to belong, and to find your people and your place outside of how others define you. It&rsquo;s also just a tremendously fun read, the details so sharp and witty that it somehow made me nostalgic for the days of bus rides to away games and being forced to run sprints.</p>

<p>Like I said, not at all the place I thought I&rsquo;d want to escape to, but I&rsquo;m so glad I did.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Jen Kirby, foreign and national security reporter</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>The Repair Shop</em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Welcome to The Repair Shop" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r0tpFmcChPs?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0tpFmcChPs"><em>The Repair Shop</em></a> is like <a href="https://youtu.be/b9Y4bmbh1KY?t=139"><em>Antiques Roadshow</em></a>, except the hook isn&rsquo;t centered on learning the monetary value of beloved family heirlooms; it&rsquo;s centered on repairing them after they&rsquo;ve seen decades of neglect.</p>

<p>The BBC series has everything I could ask for in a crafty reality show, and it took me a full week of bingeing it on Netflix this summer to realize exactly what makes it so perfect. The magic starts with the cast, which is made up of a horologist and his sister, whose specialty is repairing items made of leather. There&rsquo;s also a metalworker, a carpenter, a ceramics conservator, a painting conservator, and two women who mostly repair teddy bears.</p>

<p>Instead of being tasked with contrived challenges that have no basis in reality, these specialists are asked to fix priceless family treasures. In one episode you might see the horologist, Steve, take apart every minuscule gear of a grandfather clock to figure out why it doesn&rsquo;t chime, while the painting conservator, Lucia, meticulously mends the torn canvas of an 18th-century portrait. At the end of every episode, the cleaned-up and repaired items are returned to their owners. There are hugs and tears, and then the craftspeople are back to work. It&rsquo;s endearing, fascinating, and incredibly satisfying TV. (<em>The Repair Shop</em>&rsquo;s third season is the only one currently available on Netflix, but hopefully the streaming service will add more soon.)</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Estelle Caswell, senior video producer</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Call of Duty: Warzone</h2>
<p>I bought my first video game console in March 2020, as the world shrank to the size of my one-bedroom apartment. It was a panic purchase, made with a few friends who were scattered across the country. We settled on the first-person shooter game Call of Duty: Warzone.</p>

<p>In its most basic format, several dozen teams of one to four players are dropped into a gigantic map littered with weapons, vehicles, and challenges. Every few minutes, the map gets smaller. Kill or be killed. Last team alive wins. Nearly 75 million people play it, and we were worse than all of them.</p>

<p>Yet it quickly became the thing I most looked forward to every day. It was a relief to put on a headset and hear familiar voices talk not about a pandemic, but about the safest place on the map to drop in, the risks of piling into a helicopter together, or if anyone could share their extra rocket-launcher ammunition.</p>

<p>Soon we had a round-the-clock text chain, a daily lunch &ldquo;meeting,&rdquo; and a serious habit. And while we still can&rsquo;t assure each other&rsquo;s survival in Warzone, it&rsquo;s how we committed to getting each other through the year.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Sam Ellis, senior video producer</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Netflix’s TV adaptation of <em>The Baby-Sitters Club</em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="The Baby-Sitters Club Official Trailer | Netflix Family" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/vivBx21jYC0?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>Being a particularly feminine trans woman who transitioned as an adult &mdash; as I am &mdash; sometimes feels like constantly wearing a button that reads &ldquo;ASK ME ABOUT MY MISSING GIRLHOOD.&rdquo; But I don&rsquo;t really need people to ask before I start saying things like, &ldquo;I always found it easier to hang out with the girls in my class than the boys, but everybody told me to hang out with the boys anyway! Oh, well!&rdquo; or, &ldquo;Ha ha ha, we all secretly longed to wear a prom <em>dress</em>, am I right, fellas?&rdquo; while my cis lady friends smile indulgently and avert their eyes.</p>

<p>If I&rsquo;m honest with myself, I feel a deep, trenchant sadness about the girl I never got to be, and I&rsquo;ve spent much of my time in quarantine this year desperately trying to backfill a sense of self that never quite developed because I was trying to be someone I wasn&rsquo;t. That&rsquo;s where Netflix&rsquo;s ultra-enjoyable <a href="https://www.vox.com/21308720/baby-sitters-club-explained-netflix-ann-m-martin-scholastic-books-tv-show"><em>Baby-Sitters Club</em></a> comes in. Showrunner Rachel Shukert created a 10-episode adaptation of several books in the venerable series by Ann M. Martin that successfully reimagines many of their plots for the world of 2020, while still bending over backward to let the titular baby-sitters use a rotary phone.</p>

<p>For a series about 12-year-old girls hanging out and dealing with their problems, <em>The Baby-Sitters Club</em> has a surprising amount to offer adults, from sweetly self-aware writing to winning performances by both the central kids and the actors playing their parents (who include Alicia Silverstone!). So it&rsquo;s a show worth watching even if you&rsquo;re trying desperately to capture a thing that never existed to begin with. Either way, please let me know which baby-sitter you are, so I can invite you to my club. I am so very obviously a Kristy, and I&rsquo;m not happy about it.</p>

<p>&mdash;<em>Emily VanDerWerff, critic at large</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">ChilledCow’s lo-fi hip-hop YouTube videos</h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="lofi hip hop radio - beats to sleep/chill to" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/DWcJFNfaw9c?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>I thrive on the separation of my work life, home life, binge life, and whatever else occupies me in the comfort of my apartment. So when the time came to transform my home into an office, I panicked &mdash; quite literally. It&rsquo;s December and I still haven&rsquo;t bought a desk lamp because I can&rsquo;t find a happy medium between aesthetic and efficiency.</p>

<p>One thing that <em>has</em> helped me this year is <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSJ4gkVC6NrvII8umztf0Ow">ChilledCow&rsquo;s lo-fi hip-hop videos on YouTube</a>. They&rsquo;re essentially just beats on a loop &mdash; perfect for someone who needs a bit of noise in the background while they work. There are no lyrics to distract me; the videos provide just enough of a hum to make me think I&rsquo;m working on something very important in a neighborhood coffee shop. And when paired with my simulated office clock, it almost makes me feel like I&rsquo;m not at home. Almost.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Kaylah Jackson, social media manager</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Nonfiction audiobooks</h2>
<p>2020 was a <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2020/5/11/21250518/oliver-j-robinson-interview-pandemic-anxiety-reading">hard year for reading</a>, which is why I pivoted some of mine to listening instead. I&rsquo;ve never been a book-on-tape person, nor have I been much of a nonfiction person, but I&rsquo;ve unlocked a secret to filling up lots of hours without having to look at a screen: long nonfiction audiobooks, especially when they&rsquo;re read by the famous people who wrote them. It&rsquo;s like a 30-hour podcast! This is a good thing!</p>

<p>My first foray was Tina Brown&rsquo;s <em>The Diana Chronicles</em>, a 700-page book <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/21593569/princess-diana-explainer-crown-netflix-marilyn-monroe-britney-spears-innocence">about Princess Di</a> I started on my Kindle and just couldn&rsquo;t finish until I switched to <a href="https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Diana-Chronicles-Audiobook/B002V8M9EE">the audiobook</a>, read by a British woman who unfortunately is not Tina but who does say &ldquo;Charles&rdquo; in a way befitting <a href="https://www.vox.com/21564110/the-crown-season-4-episode-4-review-recap"><em>The Crown</em></a> (&ldquo;Chawls&rdquo;). I then moved on to <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2018/11/13/18091388/michelle-obama-becoming-review">Michelle Obama&rsquo;s memoir</a>, a book made even more readable when Michelle is the one <a href="https://www.audible.com/pd/Becoming-Audiobook/B07B3BCZ9S">reading it to you</a>. And then there was <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/21573728/barack-obama-memoir-promised-land-review">her husband&rsquo;s memoir</a>, a 700-pager (volume one of two!) that is only enhanced by the former president&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.audible.com/pd/A-Promised-Land-Audiobook/0525633723?ref=a_author_Ba_c19_lProduct_1_1&amp;pf_rd_p=1ae0e65e-ad09-4aa7-aa73-772cefb1b5e1&amp;pf_rd_r=3RJR9BGBZHBZXA663J9B">perfect delivery</a>. Bonus tip: You can request audiobooks from your local library and get them delivered straight to your phone for free.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Julia Rubin, editorial director, culture and features</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">The New York Times’s Spelling Bee game</h2>
<p>As routines melted away this year, the <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/puzzles/spelling-bee">New York Times Spelling Bee</a> morphed from a buzzy distraction into a dependable daily ritual.</p>

<p>It&rsquo;s a simple puzzle: You make as many words as you can think of out of seven hexagonal tiles with seven letters. (The central letter has to be used at least once.)</p>

<p>But the game never makes you feel insufficient. Even if you just find a word or two, you&rsquo;re off to a &ldquo;good start.&rdquo; And the tantalizing goal of attaining a &ldquo;genius&rdquo; ranking always lurks in the distance.</p>

<p>Whether I was playing solo or with my partner, the Spelling Bee quickly became a fun daily challenge to find just one more word. And it&rsquo;s no wonder the game has spawned a devoted online fan base, the <a href="https://twitter.com/search?q=%23hivemind&amp;src=typed_query">#hivemind</a>.</p>

<p>Is it a Monday? A Wednesday? It doesn&rsquo;t matter, a new Bee is always there for you.</p>

<p>(A subscription to play the full version of the Spelling Bee &mdash; as well as a variety of other games and puzzles offered by the New York Times &mdash; costs about $3.50 per month or $20 per year.)</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Agnes Mazur, deputy engagement editor</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Star Trek</em> in the age of Trump</h2>
<p>The United Federation of Planets has always represented liberal hopes for what America could be. In the 1960s, when memories of Klan terrorism were still fresh, <em>Star Trek </em>presented a future where Lt.&nbsp;Nyota Uhura, a Black officer, wielded considerable authority over her white crewmates, and this fact was viewed as so banal by those crewmates that it wasn&rsquo;t even discussed.</p>

<p>In the 1990s, when American power was at its apex, Captain Jean-Luc Picard stood as the ambassador of a benevolent hegemon, and as a <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjuQRCG_sUw">proud defender of universal rights</a>.</p>

<p>After four years of Donald Trump, this vision of America as a shining city on the hill is no longer tenable. So 2020&rsquo;s contributions to the franchise feature idealists consumed with sorrow at what the Federation has become.</p>

<p>One of those idealists is Picard himself. In the first episode of <em>Star Trek: Picard</em>, which debuted in January, the legendary officer is asked why he left Starfleet (the Federation&rsquo;s hybrid of a navy and a diplomatic corps) after being made an admiral. &ldquo;Because it was no longer Starfleet!&rdquo; an angry Picard responds, denouncing the Federation&rsquo;s descent into prejudice against a vulnerable minority group.</p>
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<p>Later in the year, October brought the third season of <em>Star Trek: Discovery</em>, which sends the crew of the show&rsquo;s titular starship years into the future, when a catastrophic event has reduced the Federation to a shadow of its former self. The crew of Discovery seeks to rebuild it, but looming over the season are vague hints that the former hegemon has become something wicked and menacing.</p>

<p>On both shows, the heroes remain committed to liberal democracy. But they can no longer be confident that the arc of the moral universe bends toward justice. In 2020, even <em>Star Trek </em>must confront the possibility that Trumpism could win.</p>

<p>I love S<em>tar Trek</em> with an unironic sincerity that&rsquo;s no less uncool today than when I was recording episodes on my parents&rsquo; VCR. I suspect that no one, real or fictional, did more to shape my sense of how a moral society should wield power than Jean-Luc Picard. I no longer believe that I live in such a society, but even in this dark age, Star Trek still lionizes men and women who insist that power and justice must be intertwined.</p>

<p>It&rsquo;s a joyous vision. <em>Star Trek</em>&rsquo;s audacity has always been its hopefulness.</p>

<p>(<em>Star Trek: Discovery</em> and <em>Star Trek: Picard</em> are streaming on CBS All Access.)</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Ian Millhiser, senior correspondent</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Emily in Paris</em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Emily in Paris | Official Trailer | Netflix" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lptctjAT-Mk?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>With everything going on in the world, the last thing my exhausted brain needed were more dark, grim stories about miserable, awful people. So I found immediate comfort in the delightful harmlessness of <a href="https://www.vox.com/21502498/netflix-emily-in-paris-review-millennials"><em>Emily in Paris</em></a>.</p>

<p>The Netflix series, created by Darren Star (<em>Sex and the City</em>)<em>,</em> is a warm, low-effort form of pleasure. Details like Emily&rsquo;s age or her backstory about her former life in Chicago are not important. Details about characters who aren&rsquo;t Emily are even less so.</p>

<p>All that does matter is that Emily&rsquo;s job embodies the show&rsquo;s loose understanding of &ldquo;marketing,&rdquo; that she has the innate talent of creating viral content for social media, and that she&rsquo;s an American fish out of water in Paris. She doesn&rsquo;t get along with French people who don&rsquo;t understand her kooky ways, in large part because they are terminally French (almost every French person on the show smokes, is sexy, and prefers to avoid speaking English). Nothing too bad ever happens to Emily, and most of her problems are neatly solved by the end of each episode. And, spoiler alert, she is always successful at work.</p>

<p><em>Emily in Paris</em> presents the fantasy of someone living without consequence or any grasp of whatever terrible reality we&rsquo;re living in right now. In any other circumstance, I might be tougher on the show&rsquo;s lack of substance. But sometimes we just need an escape, and I can&rsquo;t think of a sillier one on television than this.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Alex Abad-Santos, senior correspondent </em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Whose Line Is It Anyway?</em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Superman Isn&#039;t The Man He Once Was | Whose Line Is It Anyway?" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/pk5EUtyE6VI?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>I didn&rsquo;t watch much TV at home growing up, but when I was commuting to college, I&rsquo;d spend one night every week at my grandparents&rsquo; house, where I had access to their full array of cable channels. Sometimes I&rsquo;d throw on the TV while doing homework. Late at night, <em>Whose Line Is It Anyway?</em> would come on, and I was mesmerized and delighted. Back then, Drew Carey was still hosting the show; Ryan Stiles, Colin Mochrie, and Wayne Brady were regulars, and a rotating cast of improv comedian guests sat in the fourth chair, participating in games where they made up stories or acted out scenes from cues chosen by the audience &mdash; basically, a more polished and less cringey version of whatever live improv shows you may have been dragged to in your 20s.</p>

<p>In the early days of the pandemic, my husband and I, browsing YouTube one night, were served a <em>Whose Line</em> sketch. We laughed and laughed, and then hunted some more, and realized that virtually every <em>Whose Line</em> episode in existence is streaming somewhere. That includes the British original (which is on <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.1cb56ba1-21fd-65b5-a7c5-ff31664e63eb?autoplay=1&amp;ref_=atv_cf_strg_wb">Amazon Prime</a> and <a href="https://www.hulu.com/series/ae7a5b4a-563c-4d2e-8870-2a277b70ca35">Hulu</a>) hosted by Clive Anderson, as well as both American versions: Drew Carey hosted the show for ABC from 1998 to 2007 (<a href="https://play.hbomax.com/series/urn:hbo:series:GXmleewjcUCLCHAEAACBs?camp=googleHBOMAX">all of which are on HBO Max</a>), and then it was revived in 2013 for The CW, with Aisha Tyler hosting, and it&rsquo;s still running there (and streaming <a href="https://www.cwseed.com/shows/whose-line-is-it-anyway/view-in-app/">on The CW&rsquo;s app</a>).</p>

<p>Over the decades, the faces and format have changed only slightly &mdash; in the current iteration, the four comedians are joined for a few games by a star from <em>The</em> <em>Vampire Diaries</em> or an Olympic synchronized swimmer &mdash; and the games have barely changed at all. And I find that immensely comforting. Some old jokes, as you might imagine, don&rsquo;t land as well as they used to. But for the most part, the humor is goofy and silly and disconnected from current events and the instability of the outside world. And at the end of a workday during this maddening, exhausting year, it was exactly what I needed.</p>

<p>&mdash;<em>Alissa Wilkinson, film critic</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Twitter account <a href="https://twitter.com/apoemcalledlove">@apoemcalledlove</a></h2><div class="twitter-embed"><a href="https://twitter.com/apoemcalledlove/status/1336139997603360769?s=20" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">View Link</a></div>
<p>This was the year I <a href="https://www.vox.com/21556548/national-book-award-2020-winners-finalists">got into poetry</a>, and my favorite discovery was Alex Dimitrov. Dimitrov&rsquo;s next poetry collection comes out in February (<a href="https://www.coppercanyonpress.org/books/love-and-other-poems-by-alex-dimitrov/">preorder it!</a>), but you can read some of its most show-stopping poems now: <a href="https://iowareview.org/blog/sunset-14th-street">&ldquo;Sunset on 14th Street&rdquo;</a> simply flattened me, a longtime resident of 14th Street; <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2018/04/30/june">&ldquo;June&rdquo;</a> made me long for the New York summers I normally despise but didn&rsquo;t get to experience during this terrible year; and then there was <a href="https://aprweb.org/poems/love0">&ldquo;Love.&rdquo;</a></p>

<p>&ldquo;Love&rdquo; is an &ldquo;endless poem&rdquo; cataloging the things Dimitrov loves. It was started in <em>The American Poetry Review</em> and is printed in his forthcoming book, but it actually grows by one line each day through the Twitter account <a href="https://twitter.com/apoemcalledlove">@apoemcalledlove</a>. Some of the lines are profound, some are funny, some are dreamy, some are shockingly earnest. Reading a new one every day has been a gift, a corrective to the <a href="https://www.vox.com/the-goods/2020/12/16/22174653/bad-tweets-worst-twitter-2020">many bad posts of 2020</a>. In a great many months filled with so much pain, I have never been more in need of an ongoing list of what is good.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Julia Rubin, editorial director, culture and features</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Imaginary Advice</em></h2><div class="soundcloud-embed"><a href="https://soundcloud.com/ross-sutherland/70-sex-and-the-city-the-return-part-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">View Link</a></div>
<p>I&rsquo;ve spent the past several months trying to figure out how to recommend Ross Sutherland&rsquo;s fiction podcast <em>Imaginary Advice</em> to various people in my life, and I still haven&rsquo;t figured out how to explain why it&rsquo;s one of the best podcasts I&rsquo;ve ever heard except to say, &ldquo;Please just listen to it?&rdquo;</p>

<p>But let me try this way:</p>

<p>I sat on a roof in quarantine and completely disappeared into <a href="https://m.soundcloud.com/ross-sutherland/70-sex-and-the-city-the-return-part-1">the series&rsquo; two-part &ldquo;Sex and the City: The Return,&rdquo;</a> a paranoid fever dream in which the main character narrates his gradual descent into the deep underbelly of a <a href="https://mckittrickhotel.com/sleep-no-more/"><em>Sleep No More</em></a>-esque immersion experience based on the classic TV show.</p>

<p>It was weird, and magic, and the kind of radio storytelling that makes you think, &ldquo;How did someone write something this perfect?&rdquo;</p>

<p>So if you like podcasts, you owe it to yourself to give this one a try. Please just listen to it.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Byrd Pinkerton, reporter/producer, podcasts</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Harry Potter TikTok</h2><figure class="wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok alignnone"><div class="wp-block-embed__wrapper">
<blockquote class="tiktok-embed" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@claudiaalende/video/6883659461756554501" data-video-id="6883659461756554501" data-embed-from="oembed"> <section> <a target="_blank" title="@claudiaalende" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@claudiaalende?refer=embed">@claudiaalende</a> <p>You feel like everything’s falling apart- Part 6 <a title="dracomalfoy" target="_blank" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/dracomalfoy?refer=embed">#dracomalfoy</a></p> <a target="_blank" title="♬ original sound - Claudia Alende" href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/original-sound-6883659510800599813?refer=embed">♬ original sound &#8211; Claudia Alende</a> </section> </blockquote> 
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<p>2020 was the year TikTok went mainstream, and it&rsquo;s fairly obvious why: People had more time on their hands, and TikTok is the single most time-sucking social media platform that has ever existed. It seemed like every other day there was a new dance everyone was learning or a heartwarming video of a family quarantined together doing a goofy trend.</p>

<p>But my favorite part of the app was the side that felt fresh and creative yet comfortably familiar: Harry Potter TikTok. I don&rsquo;t know how it started, but sometime this summer my feed became full of hilarious impressions of the more bizarre moments from the movies &mdash; <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@kimberlypizzo/video/6889119269817257221?lang=en">an overacted inflection in a certain Voldemort cackle</a>, for instance &mdash; as well as some truly technically impressive fanfiction videos in which someone edits themselves into movie scenes to make it seem like they&rsquo;re <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@claudiaalende/video/6883659461756554501?lang=en">in a love triangle with Harry and Draco Malfoy</a>. Harry Potter TikTok is the reason I watched the Harry Potter movies more times than I&rsquo;d like to admit this year, and it&rsquo;s a nice way to remember that you don&rsquo;t have to be embarrassed about turning to a favorite kids&rsquo; book in scary times &mdash; everyone else is clearly doing the same.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Rebecca Jennings, internet culture reporter</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://bookshop.org/books/emma-f9274291-e31b-4882-90f3-90682d6309db/9780141439587"><em>Emma</em></a> (1815) and <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2020/2/28/21153314/emma-movie-sex-autumn-de-wilde-jane-austen-anya-taylor-joy-johnny-flynn"><em>Emma.</em></a> (2020)</h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="EMMA. - Official Trailer [HD] - Now On Demand and In Theaters" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/qsOwj0PR5Sk?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>In times of chaos, there is nothing like Jane Austen when you want to feel a sense of control. Here is a book in which all the sentences are so precise, have been polished with so much attention to detail, that they shine like cut glass. Here is a world in which everything exists in perfect order, and the biggest problems involve working out who will go home in whose carriage, and who will feel snubbed if someone else gets the first dance at the ball. And <em>Emma</em>, with its tiny country village and a heroine who reigns over it like a condescending queen, is perhaps the most reassuringly controlled of all Austen&rsquo;s novels.</p>

<p>It&rsquo;s also the latest Austen novel to get a big-screen film adaptation. Autumn de Wilde&rsquo;s <em>Emma.</em> (with a period!) stars Anya Taylor-Joy of <em>The Queen&rsquo;s Gambit</em>, and it is a deeply charming take on Austen&rsquo;s classic. Its rapid-fire rat-a-tat editing mimics the comic rhythms of Austen&rsquo;s prose, and it is probably the most effective of the Austen adaptations at capturing both the viciousness of her social satire and the warmth of her romance. Like the novel before it, it brought me a small window of joy in this plague year.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Constance Grady, book critic</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Cougar Town</em></h2>
<p>When <em>Cougar Town</em>, the ABC sitcom starring Courteney Cox and Busy Philipps, first aired over a decade ago, the show&rsquo;s name made many people (myself included) dismiss it, thinking it was about a bunch of divorced middle-aged women dating younger men. But it turned out the name is incredibly misleading and that assumption couldn&rsquo;t have been more wrong.</p>

<p>I picked up the show earlier this year while seeking my next quarantine binge-watch, and found it to be a funny and sweet sitcom about a group of 40-something neighbors &mdash; men and women, plus one teenage son &mdash; who all live on the same cul-de-sac, become best friends, and navigate adulthood together, jokingly calling themselves the &ldquo;cul-de-sac crew.&rdquo;  The show&rsquo;s voice, humor, and sensibility may remind you of the beloved medical comedy <em>Scrubs</em>, and with good reason: <em>Cougar Town</em> was co-created by <em>Scrubs</em> creator Bill Lawrence and Kevin Biegel, a <em>Scrubs</em> writer.</p>

<p>I was pleasantly surprised by how delightful the show is, and found myself looking forward to watching a couple of episodes every day after work. It became a bright spot in my quarantine routine, and when I finished all six seasons, I wished I still had more episodes to watch. If you, like me, once dismissed <em>Cougar Town</em> based on its title, give it a chance! (<em>Cougar Town</em> is streaming on Hulu and Amazon Prime.)</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Nisha Chittal, director of audience</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Rocket League<em> </em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Rocket League® Free To Play Cinematic Trailer" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/OmMF9EDbmQQ?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p><a href="http://rocketleague.com/">Rocket League</a> is a video game with a simple concept: soccer, but with rocket-powered RC cars. It&rsquo;s easy to pick up, with only a few buttons to know and no complicated rules to memorize. Even before you learn how to hit the ball consistently, the game is a fast-paced, chaotic joy. The numerous whiffed shots and miscalculated saves are all part of the fun. With matches that last all of five minutes, you can squeeze in a game or two (or 20) without having to block off a bunch of time to settle in. The game offers casual and competitive game modes, so whether you&rsquo;re looking for a way to distract yourself from the world or a healthy place to direct your competitive energy, you&rsquo;ll find it in Rocket League.</p>

<p>Rocket League has been a go-to for me since its release in 2015. But between the February 2019 introduction of cross-platform play (which allows you to play with your friends regardless of what console any of you have the game on) and the launch of an entirely free-to-play model in September 2020, the game has seen a huge influx of new players. Now is the perfect time to jump in!</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Zac Freeland, associate designer</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Taskmaster</em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Make this Coconut Look Like a Businessman | Full Task | Taskmaster" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/kbYL84y-0gI?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>In October, my best friend sent me a link to a video called <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbYL84y-0gI">&ldquo;Make this Coconut Look Like a Businessman.&rdquo;</a> It is only a little bit of an exaggeration to say that it completely changed my life and single-handedly pulled me out of a quarantine depression.</p>

<p>That&rsquo;s because the video introduced me to <em>Taskmaster</em>, a British TV show where comedians are assigned absurd tasks. (For example: &ldquo;Tie as many balloons as possible together under your smock! Longest balloon chain wins!&rdquo; &ldquo;Paint a horse while riding a horse! Best painting of a horse wins!&rdquo;)</p>

<p>There are multiple seasons available for free on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCT5C7yaO3RVuOgwP8JVAujQ">the show&rsquo;s official YouTube channel</a>, so pretty soon I was watching episode after episode and enjoying such delights as, say, a contestant singing multiple verses of &ldquo;Old Shep&rdquo; while painstakingly collecting tears from grown men&rsquo;s eyes with a spoon.</p>

<p>There are points. The points are irrelevant. There are prizes. The prizes are terrible. The real task of the show is to create as much joy as is humanly possible; most joy wins! (But really, we all do.)</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Byrd Pinkerton, reporter/producer, podcasts</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Ben Gibbard: Live From Home</h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Ben Gibbard: Live From Home" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ei9xuVkbQuU?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>In the Before Times, often the way I would spend my weekends or evenings was at shows &mdash;  whether playing them with my band <a href="https://brokenrecord.bandcamp.com/">Broken Record</a> or going to see bands at venues or DIY spaces in town. So when the lockdowns started in March (on my birthday, no less), I was struck by how much I had taken these opportunities and experiences for granted.</p>

<p>Thankfully, one of my favorite songwriters, Ben Gibbard (of Death Cab for Cutie and Postal Service fame), started doing acoustic performances <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ei9xuVkbQuU">live on YouTube</a> to fill the ensuing void. At the start of the pandemic, casual performances like Gibbard&rsquo;s were not only something to look forward to during a confusing time, but also a way to connect to artists I enjoyed in a different way; it was comforting to see that even people I previously viewed as larger than life were just playing songs in their homes and telling stories about their lives in the midst of an uncertain, unpredictable historical moment.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Matt Dunne, motion graphics designer</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-CnwTZJ_A5v-AQK92fNYKw/videos">Maji’s (마지) cooking YouTube channel</a></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="sub)마켓컬리에서 산 10가지 잼 리뷰ㅣ슬기로운 잼빵생활 How to eat 10 types of jam, from a bread-lover" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/_ApCNQZgmxM?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>A food stylist living in South Korea, Maji makes cooking videos with titles like <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_GEeeyfRUw">&ldquo;Now is the happiest moment &ndash; Daily Life Vlog&rdquo;</a> and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ApCNQZgmxM">&ldquo;How to eat 10 types of jam, from a bread-lover.&rdquo;</a> Filled with shots of her sauteing tteokbokki and artfully draping fettuccine onto minimalist plateware, Maji&rsquo;s everyday cooking projects offer a glimpse of a domestic life that feels placidly joyful &mdash; a welcome change from the depressive claustrophobia that characterized so much of my time indoors this year.</p>

<p>Everything Maji prepares, whether it&rsquo;s as simple as a cup of coffee or as elaborate as japchae for a crowd, is imbued with a genuine sense of self-care. Her videos seem to suggest that she takes time in the kitchen because she&rsquo;s worth taking time for, and that&rsquo;s maybe the most enticing aspect of her <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-CnwTZJ_A5v-AQK92fNYKw/videos">YouTube channel</a>. Perhaps making food at home, even when sheltering in place, doesn&rsquo;t have to be a drudgery. Perhaps it can be a gift we give ourselves every day, and a reminder that now really is the happiest moment.</p>

<p>Or perhaps they&rsquo;re simply well-executed cooking videos, and I&rsquo;m projecting a year&rsquo;s worth of yearning onto them. We may never know, but either way, I&rsquo;ll be logging on in the new year to see what Maji has in store for 2021 and beyond.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Alexa Lee, social media manager</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Koker Trilogy</h2>
<p>The great Iranian director <a href="https://www.vox.com/2016/7/6/12100250/abbas-kiarostami-guide-to-his-best-films">Abbas Kiarostami</a> was a master of slow cinema &mdash; films that, if you surrender yourself to their mood and look and feel, can completely absorb you. The first installment of his Koker Trilogy, <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0093342/"><em>Where Is the Friend&rsquo;s House?</em></a> (1987), is a straightforward narrative: a charming tale of a young boy on a quest in his village. But everything changes with the second film, <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0105888/"><em>And Life Goes On</em></a> (1992), which is really about how you can wake up one day and find that the world as you know it irrevocably changed &mdash; and that life will, yes, go on. The trilogy concludes with the lighter <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111845/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1"><em>Through the Olive Trees</em></a> (1994), where, yet again, what we&rsquo;ve seen in the previous film is placed in a new context. With beautifully composed themes, sincere emotion, and meta twists, the Koker Trilogy is a fantastic introduction to Kiarostami&rsquo;s art. And if you, too, love it, move right on to his next and most shattering film, 1997&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120265/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1"><em>A Taste of Cherry</em></a>.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Andrew Prokop, senior correspondent</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Street Dance of China</em>, season 3</h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="【這！就是街舞3】EP8精華 盜墓遇上木乃伊Bouboo 貪婪吞噬最後一幕嚇出心臟！｜王嘉爾 王一博 鍾漢良 張藝興｜Street Dance of China S3" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/olsf1LM3P4U?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>My greatest pop cultural joy of 2020 was <em>Street Dance of China</em>, a reality dance competition series whose third season aired this fall. It featured <a href="https://www.vox.com/2020/3/27/21192718/the-untamed-netflix-review-rec-mdzs-cql"><em>The Untamed</em>&rsquo;</a>s Wang Yibo as one of four competing celebrity dance captains, alongside actor Wallace Chung and Yibo&rsquo;s fellow pop idols Wang Jiaer (stage name Jackson) and Zhang Yixing (stage name Lay). Their goal? To represent and perform an authentically Chinese version of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Street_dance">street dance</a>, while ultimately singling out the best street dancer in China.</p>

<p><em>Street Dance of China</em> is loud, bloated, controversial, and dramatic. Season three entailed blatant producer interference, stirred fan debates over appropriative portrayals of hip-hop and street culture, and featured an exhausting rehearsal schedule and dangerous stages that wound up injuring multiple contestants. Each episode was a two- to three-hour drama; the finale was over <em>six hours</em> long.</p>

<p>And yet I loved it so much that during the long wait between weekly episodes, I tracked down a private <em>Street Dance of China</em> Discord just to get access to subtitled episodes a few days earlier, and signed up for Chinese lessons in hopes of better understanding the un-subbed episodes. I came for Yibo and his ridiculous, stunning Chanel outfits and stayed for Lay&rsquo;s four-word Chinese idioms; Jackson shouting &ldquo;This is ART!&rdquo;; Wallace needing hugs every week; and a slew of incredible dancers like Xiao Jie, Bouboo, Su Lianya &mdash; the list is long and heartfelt. As for the winner, I&rsquo;ll avoid spoilers here, but the cap-off is satisfying and unexpected, and the dancing speaks for itself.</p>

<p>The version of China on display here is transparent but deeply compelling: a diverse, modern, sophisticated cultural hub, where blatant nationalism coexists with egalitarian respect for other cultures &mdash; street dance culture above all. <em>Street Dance of China</em> presents dance as vividly political, thoroughly tied to both individual and national identity, yet also bursting with international influences, from anime to spaghetti Westerns. In a year spent mostly locked away from the rest of the world, <em>Street Dance of China</em> somehow made me feel more connected to the rest of the world than ever.</p>

<p>Thanks to a team of dedicated fansubbers, <a href="https://twitter.com/i/events/1318741007509319680">full translated episodes</a> are available to watch for free. The show&rsquo;s network, Youku, also recently released <a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLATwx1z00HseGqtY7R08f5AAUW7QWFtcv">the entire third season on YouTube with English subtitles</a> &mdash; a welcome holiday gift.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Aja Romano, culture reporter</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Gideon the Ninth</em> and <em>Harrow the Ninth</em> by Tamsyn Muir</h2><img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/19185138/Gideon_the_Ninth_Cover.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="The cover of the book Gideon the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir." title="The cover of the book Gideon the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Tor" />
<p>Everybody in the world, seemingly, adored Tamsyn Muir&rsquo;s 2019 release <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2019/9/10/20857141/gideon-the-ninth-review-tamsyn-muir"><em>Gideon the Ninth</em></a>, a book that we have written about <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2020/12/2/21816296/gideon-ninth-harrow-tamsyn-muir-locked-tomb-trilogy-vox-book-club">a number of times here at Vox</a>. Following a badass sword maiden into the heart of a strange necromancy competition/pageant, the book lived up to its elevator pitch, which is (rather famously at this point) <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2019/9/10/20857141/gideon-the-ninth-review-tamsyn-muir">&ldquo;Lesbian necromancers in space!!!&rdquo;</a></p>

<p>And, yes, that&rsquo;s good, and yes, you should read it. But can I interest you in the sequel?</p>

<p>I enjoyed <em>Gideon</em> quite a bit, but its follow-up, the 2020 novel <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2020/8/4/21352707/harrow-the-ninth-review-tamsyn-muir-gideon-the-ninth-sequel"><em>Harrow the Ninth</em></a>, ditches Gideon&rsquo;s point of view for that of Harrowhark, the necromancer whom Gideon swore to defend (against her better judgment) in the book bearing her name. Harrowhark is damaged, to put it mildly, but in a deeply believable and nuanced way. Muir writes much of the book in the second person &mdash; &ldquo;You didn&rsquo;t know whose arm was being touched,&rdquo; goes one sentence &mdash; which a lot of people find maddening, but I find deeply moving.</p>

<p>I don&rsquo;t know if <em>Harrow the Ninth</em> &ldquo;brought me joy.&rdquo; It is, after all, about a necromancer who&rsquo;s in love with a long-dead corpse she once saw as a little girl and who has suffered tremendous amounts of trauma at almost every stage of her life. But it offered me more catharsis than anything else I&rsquo;ve read this year, because its use of second person and other literary techniques that I won&rsquo;t dare spoil provided an amazing look at the dissociation that occurs after trauma in a way few other books can match. When, late in the book, Muir used a first-person point of view for the first time, I almost cheered. GOOD FOR YOU, HARROWHARK. I WILL PROTECT YOU FOREVER.</p>

<p>&mdash;<em>Emily VanDerWerff, critic at large</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>The Face </em>(the US and UK editions)</h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Don&#039;t Try It With Naomi Campbell" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/eSSpWWSveC8?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>My roommate and I watched a lot of TV in the void of time between March and May, becoming intimately acquainted with the frustrating reality of the streaming era: There is simultaneously too much to watch and nothing to watch at all. So we retreated from the glossy originals peddled by Netflix and all the HBO series we&rsquo;d always planned to watch once we found the time, choosing instead to immerse ourselves in the world of reality TV. That&rsquo;s how we found <em>The Face</em>, Naomi Campbell&rsquo;s modeling competition show from the mid-2010s. It&rsquo;s a twist on the <em>America&rsquo;s Next Top Model</em> formula in which three competing teams of aspiring models are each led by a professional (Campbell and two other pro model co-hosts who rotate from season to season) who desperately wants her girls to win.</p>

<p>We watched what was available on Amazon Prime, which was sadly not much; the service only has the series&rsquo; single British season and its two US seasons available, although there are also Australian, Thai, and Vietnamese versions of <em>The Face</em>. (If you know how or where to watch those, hit me up.) In those 26 episodes, we found utter joy amid some occasionally great modeling, some hilariously awful acting challenges, and some unforgettably harsh barbs from Campbell aimed at her co-hosts. Thanks to the glorious time we had with <em>The Face,</em> Campbell has become a holy figure in our reality TV-loving household. She is the matriarch of all things chic and snippy, and the woman who transported us into a melodramatic modelland for three seasons&rsquo; worth of gloriously lowbrow content. <em>The Face</em> may not be fondly remembered by most people, if it is remembered at all, but we will always be thankful for it.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Allegra Frank, associate culture editor</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Survivor</em></h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Jeff Probst Discusses the 20 Legendary Winners Returning to Compete in Survivor: Winners At War" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/NtH3FhO5ILs?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>After 20 years and 40 seasons on the air, <em>Survivor</em> is as good as it&rsquo;s ever been. The long-running CBS reality show is still wildly entertaining and addictive, with lots of heart and big personalities. And crucially, now that it&rsquo;s winter and many of us are stuck inside, there are 40 seasons to watch to help pass the time.</p>

<p>In case you need a refresher: 20 people spend 39 days stranded in a remote locale with little more than a machete, cooking pot, and some water canteens. They vote each other out one by one until the eventual winner, selected by a jury of eliminated players, takes home a million-dollar cash prize.</p>

<p>To make it to the end, the contestants scheme, form alliances, sleuth around their camp for hidden advantages, and compete in challenges to win immunity from elimination. You, meanwhile, scream at your TV as your favorites win, lose, sneakily backstab their competition, or fall victim to a vicious blindside.</p>

<p>I often&nbsp;escaped to <em>Survivor </em>in 2020 because, while the drama, stakes, and tension constantly run high for players in their tiny sliver of the world, the outcomes had no impact on my<em> </em>world. Their problems were never my problem or responsibility to solve. I just got to kick back and talk smack about what I&rsquo;d do differently if I were playing. And in a year packed with very real problems and consequences, it was blissfully cathartic. (You can find every season on CBS All Access, and Netflix now carries two seasons &mdash; 28 and 40 &mdash; as well).</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Taylor Maycan, shortform audio producer</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">PlutoTV</h2>
<p>I thought channel-flipping was dead. I have cable, but surfing has been joyless for years; strange shows I never wanted and <em>SVU</em> reruns I&rsquo;m trying to break free of. On Netflix and Hulu and AppleTV+ and everything else, there&rsquo;s clicking, searching, scrolling, and frustration that you&rsquo;ve been looking for 35 minutes and found &ldquo;nothing.&rdquo; There&rsquo;s no, as the streaming service PlutoTV puts it, dropping in.</p>

<p><a href="https://pluto.tv/live-tv/">PlutoTV &mdash; tagline &ldquo;Drop in. Watch free.&rdquo;</a> &mdash; is so good, it&rsquo;s insidious.</p>

<p>For one thing, nothing is free, and especially nothing is free that comes from Viacom, a multinational company known for various types of exploitation. But mostly, PlutoTV&rsquo;s content is too perfect.</p>

<p>The service, watchable on just about any device, is set up like traditional TV, channels running all the time. You can&rsquo;t pause or decide what&rsquo;s on, but you can flip: through stations devoted entirely to Bob Ross and <em>The</em> <em>Love Boat,</em> MTV dating shows from the aughts, and &rsquo;90s daytime. Standup comedy, Hot Ones, <em>Midsomer Murders</em>, music videos, <a href="https://www.vox.com/2016/1/25/10826146/degrassi-netflix-explained"><em>Degrassi</em></a>. Flip over to an entire channel devoted to showcasing Christmas lights set to music, down to another just for holiday rom-coms.</p>

<p>Flip, also, through things I don&rsquo;t choose to watch, but maybe you would: military history, golf, <em>Naruto</em>, news from sources reputable and disreputable. It&rsquo;s bad all right. But in 2020, it was a real joy to have someplace to drop in.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Meredith Haggerty, deputy editor, The Goods </em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Marvel’s <em>X of Swords</em></h2><img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/22200274/DE487C98_3B8C_47CA_9C28_72D874617951.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Art from X of Swords" title="Art from X of Swords" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Mark Brooks/Marvel Comics" />
<p>Over the past year, Marvel has reimagined the state of mutanthood in its comic book universe with a titanic, dual event called <a href="https://www.vox.com/2019/8/8/20758804/x-men-house-of-x-marvel-d23-mcu"><em>House of X/Powers of X</em></a>; in it, Marvel&rsquo;s mutants created a utopian sovereign nation called Krakoa, in which all mutants are welcome and humanity and its ills are not.</p>

<p>But then Krakoa was revealed to have a dark past. And in order to preserve their future, characters like Storm, Wolverine, and ultimate villain-turned-everyone&rsquo;s-favorite-mutant-dad Apocalypse had to reckon with the horrors and villains of Krakoa&rsquo;s history in <a href="https://www.vox.com/21473723/x-of-swords-marvel-x-men-review-mcu"><em>X of Swords</em></a>.</p>

<p>The story (mainly written by&nbsp;<a href="https://www.marvel.com/comics/creators/11743/jonathan_hickman">Jonathan Hickman</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="https://twitter.com/tinihoward?lang=en">Tini Howard</a>, and drawn by artists Pepe Larraz, R.B. Silva, Marte Gracia, and designer Tom Muller) is an amalgam of action-adventure, splashy spectacle, slapstick comedy, and high myth. I found myself simultaneously puzzled by the fantasy storytelling, worried for my favorite characters, and just eager to see what happens next.</p>

<p>And I think that&rsquo;s a testament to the world-building of Marvel&rsquo;s X-team.</p>

<p>The reason all of this matters is that it pays off decades of emotional investment and storytelling. These characters have created their second family, a home for themselves, and lives that truly are worth something. For the X-Men, the punching, smashing, and pew-pewing has always been secondary to the cause they&rsquo;re fighting for. And in <em>X of Swords</em>, they aren&rsquo;t fighting for a possibility of a better world &mdash; which they&rsquo;ve always been fighting for &mdash; but rather to preserve the better world they&rsquo;ve already built for themselves. And that makes this battle one of the best X-Men adventures in ages.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Alex Abad-Santos, senior correspondent </em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Animal Crossing: New Horizons</h2><img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/19853305/91135479_2859342274159253_1718197590840836096_o.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="An Animal Crossing character laying on a beach chair." title="An Animal Crossing character laying on a beach chair." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Nintendo" />
<p>I don&rsquo;t really play video games &mdash; I&rsquo;m usually more of a bookworm or social media doomscroller. But I ended up buying a Switch and playing <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2020/3/27/21194698/animal-crossing-new-horizons-review-nintendo-switch">Animal Crossing: New Horizons</a> whenever I had down time after interviewing people for <a href="https://www.vox.com/first-person/21439654/coronavirus-covid-19-animal-crossing-bts-friendships">this story I wrote</a> on unlikely digital friendships during the pandemic. It&rsquo;s probably the best decision I made this year.</p>

<p>When I wasn&rsquo;t busy writing or reporting, Animal Crossing kept my mental health in check. There was something so soothing and comforting about designing my own island, giving gifts to people virtually, traveling, talking to strangers, and doing DIY projects, even though I was stuck indoors and sitting on the couch.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Rachel Ramirez, reporter</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">The ASMR lectures that helped me go to sleep</h2>
<p>I&rsquo;ve never been good at falling asleep, but the pandemic turned a problem into a bit of a crisis. My bizarre solution, which I had tested before but became fully reliant on in 2020, is to lull myself to sleep with accented lectures. They have to be in English; if it&rsquo;s a language I&rsquo;m not fluent in (so &hellip; all of them but English), I zone out and find myself awake at 3 am. And American- or British-accented English often feels too harsh. But a <a href="https://youtu.be/tjm_WiMiTMU">Bulgarian</a> or <a href="https://youtu.be/5ZmSVtgu00E">Norwegian</a> or <a href="https://youtu.be/UwtYQF_J_Qc">Korean</a> accent works great.</p>

<p>So I&rsquo;ve grown reliant on Norwegian peace scholar Johan Galtung, Italian writer Loretta Napoleoni, and Bulgarian political scientist Ivan Krastev for my overall wellness. Whether I agree with what they&rsquo;re saying is irrelevant; I have no idea if Napoleoni is right about the effects of the PATRIOT Act. I sometimes get story ideas out of the process. I keep meaning to write about pro-dictatorship intellectuals in China because Beijing propagandist Zhang Weiwei got into my rotation. But I also like having a nighttime intellectual life that&rsquo;s almost entirely different from my daytime life: more global in scope, including some wackadoos like Zhang and clever moderates like Krastev. It&rsquo;s the closest I&rsquo;ve gotten to traveling during this whole mess.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Dylan Matthews, senior correspondent</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">NPR’s Tiny Desk At Home Concerts</h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Dua Lipa: Tiny Desk (Home) Concert" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/F4neLJQC1_E?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>NPR gave its time-honored Tiny Desk format an entirely different energy this year with Tiny Desk At Home concerts &mdash; and enabled viewers to vibe with some of their favorite artists who were staying home, too.</p>

<p>Whether it was <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVMJXZYgNfc">Jhen&eacute; Aiko&rsquo;s soothing medley of hits</a>, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4neLJQC1_E">Dua Lipa&rsquo;s kinetic disco bops</a>, or <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJm_RW8Rm10">Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires&rsquo;s tender duets</a>, these shows offered an intimate and personal way to collectively enjoy music in a year when going to shows simply wasn&rsquo;t an option.</p>

<p>While some concerts featured more extensive production efforts, others were entirely stripped-back performances that were cozy and transporting all at once. &ldquo;Maybe a cluttered desk concert,&rdquo; Isbell quipped about the setting of his and Shires&rsquo;s show from their home. Regardless of the setup, each homegrown show was a safe, comforting alternative to the real thing.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Li Zhou, politics reporter</em></p>
<hr class="wp-block-separator" /><h2 class="wp-block-heading">Embracing the sprawl of Slow TV</h2><div class="youtube-embed"><iframe title="Tokyo Cycling Tour in Minato-ku and Chiyoda-ku | Bike Ride POV - 4K 60fps" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/IWNa18KXmmg?rel=0" allowfullscreen allow="accelerometer *; clipboard-write *; encrypted-media *; gyroscope *; picture-in-picture *; web-share *;"></iframe></div>
<p>I&rsquo;ve always thought travel was the best way to truly clear my mind. There&rsquo;s something about being in a foreign country, trying to navigate its public transportation while not speaking the language, that helps me forget about the daily grind. While it will probably still be a while before I feel safe traveling internationally, I&rsquo;ve found something that does quell my desire a little bit: Slow TV.</p>

<p>Slow TV is a genre of video &mdash; more a concept than a series of discrete works &mdash; that presents a lengthy, marathon-like process to be viewed in real time. Nothing of note really happens in a Slow TV video. The genre can encompass anything from the famous yule log burning during the holidays to footage of fish tanks that you play to keep your cat occupied, but I&rsquo;ve found the most joy in first-person travel videos. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUUpxdqNg0M">A tram in Amsterdam completing the entirety of its route</a>, the <a href="https://youtu.be/hvHK4yZNXpk">seven-hour train ride from Bergen to Oslo</a>, a person <a href="https://youtu.be/IWNa18KXmmg">riding their bike aimlessly through Tokyo</a>. It&rsquo;s not distracting from whatever else I might be doing, it provides nice ambient noise, and, most importantly, it gives me a little glimpse of what the world looks like when I can&rsquo;t see it for myself.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Zac Freeland, associate designer</em></p>
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							<summary type="html"><![CDATA[The books that stay with you are weird. I (Vox book critic Constance Grady) have read countless books in my life, and some of them were great books and some of them were terrible, but do I remember, say, The Sun Also Rises in as much detail as I remember the third volume in the [&#8230;]]]></summary>
			
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<p>The books that stay with you are weird. I (Vox book critic Constance Grady) have read countless books in my life, and some of them were great books and some of them were terrible, but do I remember, say, <em>The Sun Also Rises</em> in as much detail as I remember the third volume in the Baby-Sitters Club series, <em>The Truth About Stacey</em>, where<strong> </strong>the truth is that she has diabetes? I do not.</p>

<p>The books that are most important to you personally are books that hit you at just the right moment, that manage to change your mind about something, that get you through a hard time, that give you something you can use to help you make your way through the world. (For instance, <em>The Truth about Stacey</em> taught me all about diabetes, which, no offense Ernest, but Hemingway has never done anything nearly that useful for me.)</p>

<p>So looking back at the books that were most important to you during a certain period of time is like looking at a map of your own mental development: Here&rsquo;s where I went through my unfortunate Ayn Rand phase and used the word &ldquo;objectively&rdquo; a lot; here&rsquo;s where I was very depressed and read a lot of essays about food to try to comfort myself; here&rsquo;s where I needed something absolutely beautiful in my life and found the perfect book to provide it.</p>

<p>The 2010s were a decade in which the world fundamentally changed, in which America<strong> </strong>said goodbye to its first black president and brought Donald Trump into the White House, in which the climate change apocalypse began, in which pop culture became increasingly fragmented and also TV got really good. Most days, I felt I absolutely needed a book that would either make the world more understandable or at least make it easier to deal with.</p>

<p>So as the 2010s draw to a close, I&rsquo;ve asked members of Vox staff to name a single book that came out<strong> </strong>this decade that was the most important to them personally: one that changed their life or how they saw the world, or stuck with them in odd or unusual ways. Here, in chronological order by publication date, are the books from the past 10 years that were absolutely perfect for Vox staffers at the moment when we read them. We hope that they might be perfect for you, too, right now.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Nonfiction</h2><h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Love-Dogs-Pigs-Wear-Cows/dp/1573245054"><em>Why We Love Dogs, Eat Pigs, and Wear Cows</em></a> by Melanie Joy, 2009</h3>
<p>The single largest shift in my worldview over the past decade came when I started taking the scale and severity of animal suffering seriously. That process didn&rsquo;t begin for me with Melanie Joy&rsquo;s <em>Why We Love Dogs, Eat Pigs, and Wear Cows</em>, but her book is the one that helped me think through the awful question I was left with: Why did it take me so long to admit what I always knew was true? Why is it so easy to disconnect from our moral intuitions?</p>

<p>Joy&rsquo;s book left me with more than a framework for thinking about how we treat animals. It left me with a framework for thinking about how dominant ideologies disguise, protect, and conserve themselves. And that&rsquo;s helped me see the world a lot more clearly, in contexts far beyond the animal suffering issues Joy is addressing.&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Ezra Klein, editor at large</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Warmth-Other-Suns-Americas-Migration/dp/0679763880"><em>The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America’s Great Migration</em></a> by Isabel Wilkerson, 2010</h3>
<p>This book reframed my understanding of American history, particularly the United States in the 20th century, with some of the best storytelling I have ever read. As a work of narrative nonfiction, it&rsquo;s a brilliant example, with detail-rich prose and three vibrant, deftly drawn characters. As a work of history, it shines a much-needed light on the courageous people who protested Jim Crow by leaving the South.</p>

<p>It wasn&rsquo;t until I read <em>The Warmth of Other Suns</em> that I thought of migration as a radical act, but now I wonder how I ever learned history without encountering the concept. Wilkerson&rsquo;s portrayal of the Great Migration changed the way I think of all immigrants, whether from Europe or Central America or the Southern United States.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Jillian Weinberger, senior audio producer</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Pulphead-Essays-John-Jeremiah-Sullivan/dp/0374532907"><em>Pulphead</em></a> by John Jeremiah Sullivan, 2011</h3>
<p>I don&rsquo;t remember why I picked up John Jeremiah Sullivan&rsquo;s 2011 essay collection <em>Pulphead</em>. It&rsquo;s an unassuming book, squat and squarish, and the title isn&rsquo;t particularly evocative. In 2011, I&rsquo;m not even sure I knew who Sullivan was.</p>

<p>But over the past decade it&rsquo;s become the essay collection I&rsquo;ve most often recommended to others, and one of the works that&rsquo;s most influenced my own writing. That&rsquo;s largely due to its opening essay, &ldquo;Upon This Rock,&rdquo; which <a href="https://www.gq.com/story/rock-music-jesus">first appeared in GQ in 2004</a>. Sullivan writes cheekily of attending Creation, a major Christian musical festival. He arrives expecting to file an essay about how weird a Christian musical festival is, collect his check, and go home.</p>

<p>Instead, he meets a group of pot-smoking West Virginian Christians who take him under their wing. They end up reminding him of his own past as an earnest Christian teen, and he feels a wistful longing to return to a time when he found it possible to believe. It&rsquo;s a perfect essay, the best in the book, and as I&rsquo;ve taught it to college students and re-read it over the years I&rsquo;ve found it reminds me how to write about faith and doubt in a generous and hilarious way. All of Sullivan&rsquo;s writing is wonderful, but <em>Pulphead</em> and &ldquo;Upon This Rock&rdquo; will always hold a beloved spot in my heart.&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Alissa Wilkinson, film critic</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352145/"><em>Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking</em></a> by Susan Cain, 2012</h3>
<p>I&rsquo;ve always been an introvert. But I didn&rsquo;t discover that until I read <em>Quiet</em>. Susan Cain&rsquo;s book completely changed how I think about everything from my friendships to my learning style. I adjusted my work habits to align with what would make me more productive. I embraced my recharge strategies, like spending a night in or traveling solo.</p>

<p><em>Quiet</em> uses anecdotes and scientific research to explore what drives extroverts and introverts. Cain explains why a mix of personalities is beneficial for everyone to have, and how most people will find themselves somewhere on a spectrum. But she also makes a case for the importance of valuing the softer voices in the room, pointing to famous introverts like Rosa Parks, Dr. Seuss, and Steve Wozniak as evidence.</p>

<p>You might find pieces of yourself in these stories about those who struggle to fit into a world that emphasizes extroversion. Or maybe you&rsquo;ll recognize the tendencies of someone you know. Either way, <em>Quiet</em> will give you a language you didn&rsquo;t know you needed.&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Lauren Katz, senior engagement manager</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Evicted-Poverty-Profit-American-City/dp/0553447459"><em>Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City</em></a> by Matthew Desmond, 2016</h3>
<p>In <em>Evicted</em>, sociologist Matthew Desmond embeds himself into the lives of eight struggling Wisconsin families in the aftermath of the Great Recession. Some of the families live in a trailer park and others occupy small apartments in one of Milwaukee&rsquo;s poorest neighborhoods, but they all exist on the cusp of eviction and are chronically indebted to their landlords. Some qualify for housing assistance or welfare, but with how much rent costs, it&rsquo;s still not enough to live on.</p>

<p>At its heart, <em>Evicted</em> is a story of economic exploitation. It&rsquo;s also an incredibly empathetic and detailed case study fittingly published in 2016 &mdash; a year of hyper-partisanship and heightening social and economic anxieties. It made me cry and feel incredibly helpless about the nature of American poverty; while the conditions that trap people in poverty are often painted in broad strokes, Desmond humanizes and brings dignity to their lives.&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Terry Nguyen, reporter for The Goods</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/We-Have-No-Idea-Universe/dp/0735211515"><em>We Have No Idea: A Guide to the Unknown Universe</em></a> by Jorge Cham and Daniel Whiteson, 2017</h3>
<p><em>We Have No Idea</em> is a cartoon-illustrated, pop-science book with a surprising number of jokes about ferrets. But I found its premise<strong> </strong>revelatory. The book is about unknowns: The basic aspects of the universe that humans barely understand, or don&rsquo;t understand at all. An example: We have no idea what 95 percent of the universe is made out of. Normal matter and energy &mdash; everything we can see or interact with &mdash; only makes up five percent. Whoa.</p>

<p>I loved <em>We Have No Idea</em> for its clear descriptions of physics that were neither watered down nor straining to prove how smart the book&rsquo;s authors are. But moreover, it inspired me to think about the power of humility.</p>

<p>That concept has since<strong> </strong>infected my life, <a href="https://www.vox.com/science-and-health/2019/1/4/17989224/intellectual-humility-explained-psychology-replication">and my work</a>. Intellectual humility is an essential tool for learning. When we face the grand chasm of our ignorance, we should be in fearsome awe of it. But, also, we should feel excited for humanity&rsquo;s potential to fill it in, one tiny frustrating bit at a time.&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Brian Resnick, senior science reporter</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Ends-World-Apocalypses-Understand-Extinctions/dp/0062364804"><em>The Ends of the World: Volcanic Apocalypses, Lethal Oceans, and Our Quest to Understand Earth’s Past Mass Extinctions</em></a> by Peter Brannen, 2017</h3>
<p>I finished reading <em>The End of the World</em> and immediately went fossil panning, because the book is full of vivid descriptions of creatures that crawled across the planet millions of years ago. Like Opabinia, a lifeform with five eyes and an arm-like proboscis, or Hallucigenia, fittingly named because it looks like something out of a horrible fever dream. <em>The End of the World</em> makes you want to go out and see some of these creatures for yourself, even if they&rsquo;re only traces left over in rocks.</p>

<p>But the book also details the dramatic climate change events that wiped out these creatures in the first place. It blends science and narrative so that you can picture acidifying oceans or volcanic eruptions, while understanding the role that greenhouse gases played in eliminating huge percentages of life-as-we&rsquo;ll-never-know-it.</p>

<p>Author Peter Brannen is careful to emphasize that we can&rsquo;t use past climate change events to make perfect predictions about our future. But he offers a firm understanding of what&rsquo;s happened before when the chemical balance of our atmosphere changed quickly. And it&rsquo;s scary.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Byrd Pinkerton, podcast producer</em></p>

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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Fiction</h2><h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Visit-Goon-Squad-Jennifer-Egan/dp/0307477479"><em>A Visit from the Goon Squad</em></a> by Jennifer Egan, 2010</h3>
<p>When I was a kid, I read all the time. So many books! Most of them novels! Then I got to high school and required reading totally deflated me. The books were old, and largely written by dead men, and I didn&rsquo;t like them very much. College didn&rsquo;t help. It wasn&rsquo;t until I read Jennifer Egan&rsquo;s <em>A Visit From the Goon Squad</em>, published the month after I graduated, that my love of fiction was reignited.</p>

<p>The book felt so fresh, with each of the 13 chapters offering a different intersecting story. They span time and place, sending the reader on a Kenyan safari in 1973, and to the New York suburbs of the 1990s, and through a near-future California desert famously rendered in Powerpoint.</p>

<p><em>A Visit From the Goon Squad</em> completely exploded what a book could be to me, and firmly got me back into contemporary lit. I also loved that it was written by a woman in her 40s, who would go on to win the Pulitzer Prize for her astonishing achievement. It even led to my second-most mind-expanding reading experience of the 2010s: Egan&rsquo;s incredible 2012 short story &ldquo;<a href="https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2012/06/04/black-box-2">Black Box</a>,&rdquo; which was serialized on the New Yorker&rsquo;s Twitter account over the course of nine nights.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Julia Rubin, editor for The Goods</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Super-Sad-True-Love-Story/dp/0812977866"><em>Super Sad True Love Story</em></a> by Gary Shteyngart, 2010</h3>
<p>When I first read Gary Shteyngart&rsquo;s <em>Super Sad True Love Story</em>, it made me frankly, very mad. In the extremely near future, an expressly schlubby man named Lenny falls in love with the gorgeous Eunice, 15 years his junior, seemingly mostly because she wears effectively see-through jeans. Romance, so beautiful.</p>

<p>I&rsquo;d picked it up because &ldquo;love story&rdquo; was right there in the title &mdash; I&rsquo;m a simple woman &mdash; but nine years later it&rsquo;s the near-future that sticks with me, because at the time, I didn&rsquo;t see how close it was. In the novel, everyone everywhere is glued to their &auml;pp&auml;r&auml;t, a device just far enough removed from our 2010 iPhone that it took me years to see that there was effectively no daylight between them (again, I&rsquo;m simple). The US economy is in collapse (and the country&rsquo;s international standing is trash), but the national pastime is shopping. Social media &mdash; heavily favoring pictures over words &mdash; controls our relative value in the world. At the beginning of the decade, this all still seemed a little ways away. A little ways was all it was.</p>

<p>I still wonder if there wasn&rsquo;t, say, a woman who wasn&rsquo;t physically perfect that might have been a nice match for Lenny, but Shteyngart&rsquo;s vision of our world dogs me; super sad and super true.&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Meredith Haggerty, deputy editor for The Goods</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Fifty-Shades-Grey-Book-Trilogy/dp/0345803485"><em>Fifty Shades of Grey</em></a> by E.L. James, 2011</h3>
<p>No single creative work has more directly changed my life than <em>Fifty Shades of Grey</em>. I haven&rsquo;t read its commercial publication under the <em>Fifty Shades</em> title, but I have read its original incarnation &mdash; the <em>Twilight</em> fanfic known as <em>Master of the Universe</em>, which underwent only a few find-and-replace tweaks before Bella and Edward were unleashed on the masses in 2012 in their new, original forms &mdash; doe-eyed corporate underling Anastasia and de-fanged Christian, a moody billionaire with a domination kink.</p>

<p><em>Fifty Shades of Grey</em> became one of the best-selling books of all time, spawned a billion-dollar movie franchise, and inspired the creation of an entire new publishing subgenre: &ldquo;new adult,&rdquo; catering to <em>Fifty Shades</em> fans who craved more unapologetically scandalous fanfic-esque romances with emphasis on character over plot. And they got exactly what they wanted; in fact, <em>Fifty Shades </em>itself was part of an entire cottage industry of &ldquo;pull-to-publish&rdquo; <em>Twilight</em> fanfics.</p>

<p>Before <em>Fifty Shades</em>, most publishers didn&rsquo;t know fanfiction existed; after, publishers targeted fanfic fans directly in books like <em>After</em> and <em>Fangirl</em>. Before <em>Fifty Shades</em>, few people outside of fanfic culture took fandom seriously; after, interest was so high that just a few months after the book&rsquo;s release, I landed a job reporting exclusively on fandom culture &mdash; and I never had to justify my interest in fandom again.</p>

<p>&mdash;<em>Aja Romano, culture reporter</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gone-Girl-Gillian-Flynn/dp/0307588378"><em>Gone Girl</em></a> by Gillian Flynn, 2012</h3>
<p>I&rsquo;m cheating a little bit here, because I already named my official Most Influential Book of the Decade. (<a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2019/12/6/20995542/love-affairs-of-nathaniel-p-adelle-waldman">It&rsquo;s <em>The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P.</em></a>, because no other book makes me aware of systemic misogyny quite as strongly as it does, except for the anthology titled &ldquo;my news push alerts circa the 2010s.&rdquo;) But as Vox&rsquo;s book critic, I&rsquo;m abusing my power to give myself a runner-up pick. And I like to think that Amy Dunne, the titular Girl who is Gone, would be proud of me for it.</p>

<p><em>Gone Girl</em> changed the cultural vocabulary of the 2010s. It helped birth <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2018/02/26/the-domestic-thriller-is-having-a-moment">the dominance of the domestic thriller</a>, dark and psychologically twisted novels about marriage and children and the home. It helped launch <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/books/2015/jan/03/gone-girl-effect">the rise of the antiheroine</a>. It gave us <a href="https://genius.com/Gillian-flynn-gone-girl-cool-girl-monologue-book-annotated">the iconic Cool Girl speech</a> and allowed us to put a name on a rising and insidiously creepy archetype.</p>

<p>But beyond all that, <em>Gone Girl</em> is also a genuinely good book. You could read it for the first time in 2012 and not know anything about the famous twist and be shocked; you can read it today in 2019 having been thoroughly spoiled, and you will still have a fantastic time. Seven years after its first publication, <em>Gone Girl</em>&rsquo;s analysis of the power dynamics of gender and marriage is just as scathing and ferocious as ever &mdash;&nbsp;and it&rsquo;s also weirdly, darkly romantic.</p>

<p>Toward the end of the book, Amy is thinking about her marriage to the doltish Nick, and realizing that despite their unhappiness, they are perfect for each other. She thinks: &ldquo;I am a thornbush, bristling from the overattention of my parents, and he is a man of a million little fatherly stab wounds, and my&nbsp;thorns&nbsp;fit perfectly into them.&rdquo; Aww?</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Constance Grady, book critic</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/My-Brilliant-Friend-Neapolitan-Novels/dp/1609450787"><em>My Brilliant Friend</em></a> by Elena Ferrante, 2012</h3>
<p>I lent someone my copy of <em>My Brilliant Friend</em>, the first of Elena Ferrante&rsquo;s four-book series known as the Neapolitan novels. For the entire time the book was gone, its absence made me feel anxious.</p>

<p>The story of Lila and Len&ugrave;, two girls growing up in poverty in 1950s Naples, felt personal to me, not so much for the plot but of all the things it reminded me of as I read it. Everyone has had a best friend, but Ferrante admits all the messiness that goes into that friendship: not just the love, or the shared secrets, but the competitiveness, the envy, the urgency to impress.</p>

<p>And all the insecurities, which are amplified when you compare yourself to someone you both admire and trust. Len&ugrave;, who is the narrator, worries about her exams, and whether she&rsquo;s smart enough. She stares in the mirror and stresses over her zits. But Ferrante also doesn&rsquo;t avoid the moments when Len&ugrave; realizes that she&rsquo;s triumphed, is maybe luckier than Lila, and experiences a mix of regret and sadness and satisfaction. It was startling to see all this on Ferrante&rsquo;s pages, an entire novel that is a diary entry few would have the courage to write.</p>

<p>Ferrante&rsquo;s entire tetralogy felt like that to me, but it all starts with <em>My Brilliant Friend</em>. She creates such a precise world, and keeps you there, bound to her characters &mdash; Lila and Len&ugrave; and everyone they encounter. Each of the four novels breaks this in some way, but all their force comes from what Ferrante builds in book one. That&rsquo;s why it felt as if something was missing from my bookshelf, for as long as it was gone.&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Jen Kirby, foreign and national security reporter</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Americanah-Chimamanda-Ngozi-Adichie/dp/0307455920"><em>Americanah</em></a> by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, 2013</h3>
<p><em>Americanah</em> is a love story. It&rsquo;s a meditation on racism in America. And it&rsquo;s a reflection on the balancing act immigrants face, as they seek to reconcile different aspects of their identities.</p>

<p>Since I first picked it up more than five years ago, <em>Americanah</em> remains one of the most electrifying works I&rsquo;ve ever read because of its ability to capture how all of these things are inextricably linked. Through biting, gorgeous prose, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie deftly illustrates the complexity of America&rsquo;s relationship with race, and how it informs every moment and interaction.</p>

<p>Adichie does this both within the narrative itself and how the narrative is framed. Ifemulu, the Nigerian-born protagonist of <em>Americanah</em>, describes her perspective as an academic fellow who moves to the United States eager for a new experience and homesick for her old life, and intersperses this telling with posts about race that she publishes on a blog.</p>

<p>Across both mediums, Adichie masterfully cuts to the root of existing inequities, and the euphemisms we use when we talk about race and gender. In one passage, she describes fraught discussions of racism between people of color and their white partners and friends:</p>

<p>&ldquo;We don&rsquo;t want them to say, Look how far we&rsquo;ve come, just forty years ago it would have been illegal for us to even be a couple blah blah blah, because you know what we&rsquo;re thinking when they say that? We&rsquo;re thinking why the fuck should it ever have been illegal anyway?&rdquo;</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Li Zhou, Capitol Hill reporter</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Those-Who-Leave-Stay-Neapolitan/dp/160945233X"><em>Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay</em></a> by Elena Ferrante, 2014</h3>
<p>For me, Elena Ferrante&rsquo;s Neapolitan Quartet was an electrifying, consuming experience unlike any other fiction I encountered this decade. The four-book series tells the story of Elena &ldquo;Len&ugrave;&rdquo; Greco and Lina &ldquo;Lila&rdquo; Cerullo of Naples, and their complicated friendship, with the scope of an epic &mdash; gripping plotting, vivid personalities, and ruthlessly intelligent explorations of class, gender, family, and violence.</p>

<p>But years later, the installment I think about the most is the least characteristic of the four: volume 3, <em>Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay</em>. As far as the larger plot goes, it seems at first like a transitional book, characterized mainly by the separation of the central pair of characters as Len&ugrave; moves away from her dysfunctional Naples neighborhood, for married life and a career as a writer.</p>

<p>Yet it&rsquo;s that separation that allows for both the stunning condensed sequence on Lila&rsquo;s life-or-death struggle to reform the factory where she works, and for Len&ugrave;&rsquo;s isolation and dissatisfaction with married life and motherhood, to truly creep in. Ferrante&rsquo;s grand design finally becomes clear when Len&ugrave; returns to her neighborhood for a supremely uncomfortable dinner, and realizes that everything&rsquo;s changed. She&rsquo;ll spend the rest of the series trying haphazardly to go home again, but she can&rsquo;t, not really.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Andrew Prokop, senior politics correspondent</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Modern-Lovers-Emma-Straub/dp/1594634688"><em>Modern Lovers</em></a> by Emma Straub, 2016</h3>
<p>I love a midlife crisis book. You could say I have a type: I love stories about groups of friends in their thirties and forties living in cities and trying to sort out what they want out of their marriages, their careers, and their lives (see also: <em>The Emperor&rsquo;s Children</em>, <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2019/7/10/20680910/fleishman-is-in-trouble-taffy-brodesser-akner-roundtable"><em>Fleishman Is In Trouble</em></a>, <em>The Interestings</em>). So when I read Emma Straub&rsquo;s <em>Modern Lovers</em> in 2016, I could tell from the first few pages that it would stay with me for a long time.</p>

<p>The book follows two families living in Ditmas Park, Brooklyn: Elizabeth and Andrew and their teenage son Harry, and Zoe and Jane and their teenage daughter Ruby. Elizabeth, Andrew, and Zoe have been friends since college, and now they&rsquo;re all married with kids, living near each other in the same Brooklyn neighborhood and hanging out all the time &mdash; what should be the perfect life, except all of them are unsatisfied in different ways. Zoe and Jane run a celebrated, quintessential Brooklyn farm-to-table restaurant, but they&rsquo;re miserable in their marriage. Elizabeth is creatively stifled by<strong> </strong>her job as a realtor, while Andrew is aimless, living off of family money with no real career and no sense of what he wants to do.</p>

<p><em>Modern Lovers</em> reminds you that being a grown-up doesn&rsquo;t mean you have all the answers, and that everyone is just trying to figure it out. The book&rsquo;s four adults make lots of mistakes, and sometimes it seems like the two teenage kids are the ones who have it together the most. I&rsquo;ve re-read it twice since it first came out, and it&rsquo;s been a delight every time.<strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p><em>&mdash;Nisha Chittal, engagement editor</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Exit-West-Novel-Mohsin-Hamid/dp/0735212171"><em>Exit West</em></a> by Mohsin Hamid, 2017</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2017/3/17/14948598/mohsin-hamid-exit-west-review"><em>Exit West</em></a> was published in 2017, the same year President Trump signed the Muslim ban, Brexit was being fiercely debated, and I had lost track of how much time had passed since I read anything that wasn&rsquo;t about current events or policy.</p>

<p>It was the perfect book to gradually move me out of my fiction funk. <em>Exit West</em> uses a love story and magical realism to depict the global refugee crisis of our era. It is the story of two young adults who fall in love during simpler times in an unnamed, picturesque city that is home to both tradition and modernity.</p>

<p>The couple&rsquo;s lives are grossly interrupted when the city that serves as the backdrop to their romance descends into chaos and conflict. As the couple&rsquo;s relationship grows more intimate during desperate times, author Mohsin Hamid paints a vivid picture of a city&rsquo;s transformation from home to a place that is better off left behind. Through the young couple&rsquo;s evolving relationship and descriptions of magical gates that transport people to other corners of the world, Hamid allows his reader to engage with the emotional experience of becoming a refugee.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Haleema Shah, producer for Today, Explained</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lesbian-Experience-Loneliness-Nagata-Kabi/dp/1626926034"><em>My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness</em></a> by Kabi Nagata, 2017</h3>
<p>Among the many things I shed post-college, good and bad, were novels. Years of studying English and reading dozens of books a year left me feeling shamefully burned out, a feeling that was amplified by a job that involved reading and writing. I collected books I wouldn&rsquo;t read, and I knew I wouldn&rsquo;t read them.</p>

<p>That&rsquo;s when I turned to graphic novels. The shorter, stylish, gripping works of illustrated fiction lent themselves to easy reading with the same lasting impact of many picture-free works. The ones that resonated most were personal works by marginalized authors, the same kind I was drawn to in the traditional fiction category; the characters&rsquo; journeys of self-discovery were typically mirrored by evocative artwork that did some of the heavy-lifting for me, filling in the visuals that prose required me to render in my mind.</p>

<p>Perhaps no graphic novel solidified the medium&rsquo;s importance to me as <em>My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness</em>, an English translation of a Japanese series of webcomics that were later printed and bound. Author-illustrator Kabi Nagata tells a vulnerable, autobiographical tale of the period of depression she suffered in her late 20s, accompanied by a sexual awakening that only complicated matters.</p>

<p>Centered on a repressive element of Japanese society, the book can be at times heart-wrenching and difficult. Nagata holds nothing back in discussing the mental health struggles that left her penniless and home-bound for months on end. But having the beautifully written and illustrated finished product in my hands gave me comfort to know that Nagata eventually found some drive, even if she hadn&rsquo;t quite beaten her depression. It&rsquo;s the kind of fiction that I find empowering, bolstered by a unique cartoon style that is only possible in a visual medium. <em>My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness</em> has the same punch as the harshest memoirs, tempered by a digestible form I couldn&rsquo;t stop consuming.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Allegra Frank, associate culture editor</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Power-Naomi-Alderman/dp/0316547611"><em>The Power</em></a> by Naomi Alderman, 2017</h3>
<p>For much of my childhood, reading was my greatest pleasure. I devoured books, great heaps of them. But the further I got into adulthood, the less I read. I couldn&rsquo;t focus.</p>

<p>The books I <em>was</em> able to stick with deeply considered the balance between gender as a social construct and gender as something innate, lurking somewhere in our brains. Enter Naomi Alderman&rsquo;s <em>The Power</em>, in which women the world over are suddenly gifted with a stark and literally shocking ability that lets them send great jolts of electricity into attackers. The long-accepted power imbalance &mdash; men have more raw physical strength, and women must learn to navigate that truth &mdash; is upended overnight. But despite the book&rsquo;s provocative premise, it isn&rsquo;t a work of rah-rah pop feminism. It&rsquo;s a story about how difficult it is to possess any amount of power and not end up abusing it.</p>

<p>I read <em>The Power</em> in late January 2018, around two months before I realized there was a very good reason I was so drawn to stories like it. I spent most of the book wondering what happened to trans women in its world, which isn&rsquo;t addressed. (One character, assigned female at birth, is definitely trans-adjacent, but Alderman doesn&rsquo;t attempt to pin them down with any specificity.) In retrospect, it&rsquo;s a little embarrassing that I spent so much time thinking about this particular question without realizing why. I also spent a lot of time thinking about how much more likely I would be to transition if it meant <em>gaining</em> societal power.</p>

<p>Now, 13 months into hormone replacement therapy, doors are heavier, grocery bags take more effort to manage, and men sometimes yell crude things at me on the train. But I&rsquo;m also happier and better and more myself. I&rsquo;m reading again. Power doesn&rsquo;t always mean raw strength. Sometimes, power means finding the place you call home.</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Emily VanDerWerff, critic at large</em></p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Me-Halle-Butler/dp/0143133608"><em>The New Me</em></a> by Halle Butler, 2019</h3>
<p>The protagonist of Halle Butler&rsquo;s <em>The New Me</em> is a single 30-year-old temp worker who goes home to watch <em>Forensic Files</em> every night, and from the first page onward you are basically allowed to hate her.</p>

<p>Millie is the sort of millennial mess whose misery is mostly her own fault: She finds the women in her nondescript Chicago office and the rest of humanity worthy of disgust, even the people she chooses to befriend. She drinks too much and possibly also smells bad, all the while telling herself that tomorrow will be different.</p>

<p>When I read <em>The New Me</em> this summer, having just turned the corner into my late 20s, I realized that Millie was the amalgam of a series of looming fears I&rsquo;d held onto for the entire decade: A lonely, embittered woman, Millie is what happens to women who rely on alcohol and junk food to feel their feelings and spend the rest of their time dissociating in a kind of static emotional winter to avoid the horrors of modern urban life. The worst part about her, though, is that she&rsquo;s relatable. Because in the late 2010s, who&rsquo;s really all that happy anyway?</p>

<p><em>&mdash;Rebecca Jennings, culture reporter for The Goods</em></p>

<p>The only thing we can say for sure about the 2020s is that (a) if they do not roar as much as the 1920s did, that&rsquo;s on us and we have only ourselves to blame, and (b) the world will keep changing and getting ever weirder and more confusing, and we will need books to help us make our way through it. The titles we&rsquo;ve listed here can help get you started as we embark on the next 10 years, and in the meantime, we&rsquo;ll begin looking for the next books we&rsquo;ll need to make sense of the decade ahead.</p>
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<p>Every year, the Tony Awards celebrate the best plays and musicals on Broadway. And every year, the rest of the country struggles to put together a general sense of what those plays and musicals are about &mdash;&nbsp;and which ones are worth seeing if you&rsquo;re in the area &mdash;&nbsp;out of a two-sentence summary for each show and a litany of indecipherable in-jokes in the host&rsquo;s opening musical number.</p>

<p>That&rsquo;s where we come in. This year, Vox sent representatives to all of the major Tony nominees so that we could tell you everything you need to know about them. (Well, except for one play. More on that below.) We&rsquo;ve gone over all the nominees for best musical and best play &mdash; both original and in revival &mdash;&nbsp;and we can tell you what works, what doesn&rsquo;t, and what the favorites are. Think of this piece as your guide to Tonys night, so that you can see exactly how each winner holds up against the competition.</p>

<p>Here&rsquo;s what we thought of this year&rsquo;s 17 major nominees, broken down by category. Winners are noted in bold.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Best Play</h2>
<p><a href="https://www.harrypottertheplay.com/us/"><em><strong>Harry Potter and the Cursed Child, Parts I and II</strong></em></a><strong> &mdash;&nbsp;WINNER</strong></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490509/07_Harry_Potter_and_the_Cursed_Child___NYC_Photo_By_Manuel_Harlan_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Harry Potter and the Cursed Child" title="Harry Potter and the Cursed Child" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Manuel Harlan" />
<p>Everything about <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2016/9/22/13019588/harry-potter-jk-rowling-news">Harry Potter</a> is outsize: the number of books sold (more than 500 million, making it the best-selling series of all time), the blockbuster film adaptations (which have grossed nearly $8 billion), the innumerable tie-ins (theme park attractions in Florida, California, and Japan; board games, video games, so much merch), the vast and obsessive fandom, and, of course, the epic narrative itself.</p>

<p><a href="https://www.vox.com/2016/7/31/12335308/harry-potter-cursed-child-review"><em>Harry Potter and the Cursed Child</em></a> &mdash; which takes place 19 years after J.K. Rowling&rsquo;s final book and is <a href="https://www.vox.com/2016/8/11/12416606/harry-potter-cursed-child-roundtable">based on a story</a> by the author, director John Tiffany, and playwright Jack Thorne &mdash; is similarly prodigious. After 22 sold-out months in London&rsquo;s West End and a record nine Olivier Awards, the show landed on Broadway in March; much has been made of its <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/14/theater/harry-potter-broadway.html">unprecedented cost</a>, about half of which went toward Hogwarts-ifying the Lyric Theater.</p>

<p>The resulting two-part production is grand but accessible, a truly transportive experience that&rsquo;s not just for Potterheads. Sure, it&rsquo;s fun to see Harry, <a href="https://www.vox.com/2015/12/21/10633292/noma-dumezweni-hermione-actress-harry-potter">Hermione</a>, and Ron (and Draco too) all grown up and dealing with their own angsty magician teen offspring, and the inevitable saving-the-world-from-evil plot hangs together well enough, but it&rsquo;s the magic that steals the show. The onstage illusions are so elegantly executed, so delightfully clever, that for a night or two, you can forget that you&rsquo;re firmly stuck in the muggle world. <em>&mdash;Julia Rubin</em></p>

<p><a href="https://www.manhattantheatreclub.com/2017-18-season/the-children/"><em><strong>The Children</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490525/Children0060rs_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="The Children" title="The Children" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Joan  Marcus" />
<p>The British transplant <em>The Children</em> is a quietly seething play. It concerns three old friends: married couple Hazel and Robin (Deborah Findlay, aggressively bourgeois, and Ron Cook, bluff and despairing), and the long-estranged Rose (Francesca Annis, sly and determined), paying an uninvited visit to Hazel and Robin&rsquo;s dilapidated cottage. It&rsquo;s dilapidated because it&rsquo;s a summer house, not really designed for year-round living, but it&rsquo;s all they have left. The nuclear power plant where the three now-retired friends used to work recently had a meltdown, and Hazel and Robin&rsquo;s old house was swallowed up by the &ldquo;exclusion zone.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Over the course of its runtime, <em>The Children</em> swings adeptly back and forth between uncovering the barely smothered resentments that underlie its central friendship, and delving into the ethical responsibilities that each generation bears to the next. There are no flashy pyrotechnics in the staging, which never leaves Hazel and Robin&rsquo;s living room, but every moment has its own understated devastation. <em>&mdash;Constance Grady</em></p>

<p><a href="https://www.broadway.com/shows/farinelli-and-the-king/"><em><strong>Farinelli and the King</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490591/Davies_Rylance_Garbiya_Grove_Farinelli__c__Joan_Marcus_0128.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Farinelli and the King" title="Farinelli and the King" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Joan Marcus" />
<p><a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2018/3/23/17093508/mark-rylance-greatest-living-actor-explained"><em>Farinelli and the King</em></a>, transferred to Broadway from Shakespeare&rsquo;s<strong> </strong>Globe in London, has the quality of a fairy tale. But it&rsquo;s based on history: It tells the story of the mad Philip V of Spain, whose wife sought to soothe his troubled spirits through performances by the celebrated castrato opera singer Farinelli. The intimate friendship that forms between Philip and Farinelli forms the core of the play, with Philip by turns caressing and covetous, and Farinelli half admiring and half fearful of his patron&rsquo;s mercurial temper.</p>

<p>The play is a showcase for <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2018/3/23/17093508/mark-rylance-greatest-living-actor-explained">Mark Rylance</a>&rsquo;s star turn as Philip, and while Rylance,<strong> </strong>nominated this year for Best Lead Actor in a Play, is as brilliant as ever &mdash;&nbsp;by turns childlike and terrifying &mdash; he&rsquo;s supported by a uniformly strong cast. Iestyn Davies and Sam Crane make an affecting turn in the split role of Farinelli (Davies is the voice, Crane the man), but perhaps most affecting is the radiant Melody Grove as Philip&rsquo;s queen, Isabella. Isabella must be both cold-blooded politician and supportive wife, and it is her steely determination that drives the play ever forward. &mdash;<em>Constance Grady</em></p>

<p><a href="http://www.lct.org/shows/junk/"><em><strong>Junk</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490621/JUNK__LCT_10_4_17_243.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Joey Slotnick (center) and the company of Lincoln Center Theater’s prduction of JUNK.  " title="Joey Slotnick (center) and the company of Lincoln Center Theater’s prduction of JUNK.  " data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="T. Charles Erickson" />
<p>Loosely based on the life of Michael Milken, the story of <em>Junk</em> should be familiar to anyone familiar with the 1980s era of high-flying Wall Street capitalism. <em>Junk</em>&rsquo;s Milken analogue Robert Merkin (Steven Pasquale) is a financial shark in the vein of Gordon Gekko, trying to take over a struggling steel company with investments fueled by the titular junk bonds.</p>

<p>Playwright Ayad Akhtar&rsquo;s script keeps things moving, never getting too bogged down in the financial flimflammery to lose audiences &mdash; a neat trick given the occasionally soporific nature of high finance to anyone who&rsquo;s not an account. But at the same time, Akhtar&rsquo;s script never really takes things to any real conclusions. Merkin is meant to be an antihero, always chasing the next big score, no matter the cost, but judgment is never passed on him &mdash; or any of the play&rsquo;s<strong> </strong>other morally dubious support characters.</p>

<p>Ultimately, <em>Junk</em> seems content to instead raise bigger questions about money and power, value and debt, rather<strong> </strong>than really explore or answer them. Much like the fictional Merkin&rsquo;s shaky investments, there&rsquo;s a lot of flash to <em>Junk</em>, but not enough substance to back it up. <em>&mdash;Chaim Gartenberg</em></p>

<p><a href="https://latinhistorybroadway.com/"><em><strong>Latin History for Morons</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490643/cropped_0051_John_Leguizamo_in_LATIN_HISTORY_FOR_MORONS__Photo_by_Matthew_Murphy__2017_preview.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="John Leguizamo in LATIN HISTORY FOR MORONS" title="John Leguizamo in LATIN HISTORY FOR MORONS" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Matthew Murphy" />
<p>Vox was unable to send anyone to John Leguizamo&rsquo;s one-man show <em>Latin History for Morons</em> before it closed, so unfortunately we can&rsquo;t give you our thoughts on it. Instead, we&rsquo;ll send you to <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/15/theater/latin-history-for-morons-review-john-leguizamo.html">Jesse Green&rsquo;s review for the New York Times</a>, which, uh, may give you a hint as to why the show closed so quickly:</p>
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<p>Mr. Leguizamo&rsquo;s dimwit stance is unsustainable, in part because much of the history, despite the show&rsquo;s premise, is actually quite familiar. You really would have to be one of the title characters not to be aware of cataclysms like the mass murder of Native Americans. And knowing that, you can&rsquo;t help feeling the falseness of the effort to wring droplets of sarcastic pride from disasters retooled as comedy. When Mr. Leguizamo compares the Spanish conquistadors to &ldquo;N.B.A. players at a Kardashian pool party,&rdquo; you begin to wonder which way the satire hourglass is running.</p>

<p>Perhaps the apt comparison here is to Woody Allen, reconfiguring his idea of Jewish misfortune as wryness and working it out with a shrink. (Mr. Leguizamo&rsquo;s sessions with his patrician psychiatrist are especially hoary.) The problem is that this Latino nebbish persona isn&rsquo;t very credible when inhabited by a man of such obvious sophistication and sex appeal. You never believe his ignorance for a minute, any more than you believe his fatherly obliviousness. The setup and the emotional payoff it seeks are misaligned.</p>
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<p>Don&rsquo;t feel too bad for John Leguizamo, though &mdash;&nbsp;the Tonys have already announced that they&rsquo;re honoring him with a Special Tony Award this year.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Best Musical</h2>
<p><a href="http://spongebobbroadway.com/"><em><strong>Spongebob SquarePants: The Broadway Musical</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490651/Spongebob_SquarePants.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="SpongeBob Squarepants" title="SpongeBob Squarepants" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Joan Marcus" />
<p>Bright, fun, gaudy, and fully at home in Times Square between the TGI Friday&rsquo;s and the M&amp;M store, the <em>Spongebob</em> musical is, by <a href="https://broadway.news/2018/06/03/spongebob-wins-big-at-drama-desk-awards/">early indications</a>, going to win several major awards at this year&rsquo;s Tonys. That says more about the state of Broadway than the state of <em>Spongebob, </em>which<strong> </strong>sports a truly gorgeous set design, well-paced direction from Tina Landau, okay songs, and an ambitious, if politically clunky, plot about friendship, prejudice, and climate change. Gavin Lee sure is a tap-dancing squid! The day I went, my audience was full of Olds who probably had no idea what a Squidward was but who were 100 percent certain they were getting the Broadway-iest kind of Broadway there was.</p>

<p>I don&rsquo;t mean to be hard on the show: <em>Spongebob</em> is great. There are colors everywhere. The cast is excellent. Ethan Slater is winsome and earnest as a surprisingly jacked Bob (he used to be a wrestler). There are pirates! But it&rsquo;s an onstage sugar high; fun, but not genre-elevating. Then again, after a few years of transcendence with <em>Dear Evan Hansen</em> and <em>Hamilton</em>, maybe Broadway needed this return to its heart: splashy tourist grabs and media franchise crossovers. <em>&mdash;Aja Romano</em></p>

<p><a href="https://thebandsvisitmusical.com/"><em><strong>The Band&rsquo;s Visit</strong></em></a><strong><em> </em>&mdash; WINNER</strong></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490655/0618_Kristen_Sieh__John_Cariani__Alok_Tewari__Andrew_Polk__George_Abud_in_THE_BAND_S_VISIT__Photo_by_Matthew_Murphy__2017_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Kristen Sieh, John Cariani, Alok Tewari, Andrew Polk, George Abud in THE BAND’S VISIT" title="Kristen Sieh, John Cariani, Alok Tewari, Andrew Polk, George Abud in THE BAND’S VISIT" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Matthew Murphy" />
<p>Arguably no production on Broadway this season aims higher than <em>The Band&rsquo;s Visit</em>, the musical based on the acclaimed 2007 Israeli film of the same name. Much like last season&rsquo;s heart-swelling <em>Come From Away</em>, the show is about the melding of cultures that happens when one group of people is abruptly stranded in a remote place, only to be given temporary shelter by strangers. The stranded, in this case, are a group of Egyptian musicians who wind up in a remote Israeli town due to a travel snafu. The townspeople take them in, and a day of cultural and musical exchange ensues.</p>

<p><em>The Band&rsquo;s Visit</em>&rsquo;s onstage musicians are captivating, but Tony Shalhoub&rsquo;s performance as the band&rsquo;s introverted but emotionally effusive conductor is the production&rsquo;s cornerstone. His slowly unfolding characterization gets an assist from a score by prolific Broadway composer David Yazbek that adopts an almost magical realist approach to language: Conversations begin as halting, ineffective exchanges of dialogue, only to grow increasingly effusive over the course of the show as the bonding power of music takes over.</p>

<p>This doesn&rsquo;t always work; often Yazbek&rsquo;s lyrics seem to flounder, to stop just short of conveying the magic of strangers meeting and finding reflections of themselves within each other. But when it does work, the moments are rich, captivating, and full of lingering beauty. <em>&mdash;Aja Romano</em></p>

<p><a href="https://frozenthemusical.com/"><em><strong>Frozen: The Broadway Musical</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490681/7_CaissieLevyasElsainFROZENonBroadway_Freeze.PhotobyDeenvanMeer.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Caissie Levy as Elsa in FROZEN" title="Caissie Levy as Elsa in FROZEN" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Deen van Meer" />
<p>Whether you&rsquo;re a fan of the 2013 Disney animated movie <em>Frozen</em>, not a fan of the 2013 Disney animated movie <em>Frozen</em>, or someone who&rsquo;s never seen the 2013 Disney animated movie <em>Frozen</em>, you probably already know what you&rsquo;re going to get from the 2018 Disney Broadway musical <em>Frozen</em>: a largely faithful stage adaptation of the 2013 Disney animated movie <em>Frozen</em>.</p>

<p>With a book by Jennifer Lee, the movie&rsquo;s screenwriter, and an expanded score by Robert Lopez and Kristen Anderson-Lopez (who won an Oscar for writing the movie&rsquo;s &ldquo;Let It Go,&rdquo; the official anthem of toddlers everywhere), the stage <em>Frozen</em> contorts the movie&rsquo;s plot in some odd ways &mdash; mostly to make &ldquo;Let It Go&rdquo; the Act 1 closer, as you knew it would be &mdash; and it does its level best to provide some added character development to princess sisters Elsa and Anna (an effort that includes making the latter kinda horny), as well as grapple with how a fantastical kingdom might cope, economically, with winter suddenly arriving in the middle of the summer. There&rsquo;s even a lengthy dance number set at a sauna touting the benefits of &ldquo;<a href="https://www.curbed.com/2016/12/28/13847494/what-is-hygge-video">hygge</a>,&rdquo; which already makes the musical feel like a cultural artifact from 2017.</p>

<p>But the revamped story does nothing to fix the movie&rsquo;s biggest flaw, a third-act twist involving one character&rsquo;s duplicity that comes out of nowhere. And despite the massive amounts of cash obviously spent on the production (the Olaf the snowman puppet and the full-body reindeer puppet are pretty incredible), the sets and costumes are disappointingly safe. The actors are okay, the new songs are solid, and everything is just barely above average, right down to how often the actors are directed to stand in a semicircle around whoever is singing at the moment. It&rsquo;s the kind of show where the biggest applause comes for a costume change. &mdash;<em>Todd VanDerWerff</em></p>

<p><a href="https://meangirlsonbroadway.com/#/?month=2018-07"><em><strong>Mean Girls</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/10626479/MeanGirlsDC2391r2_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="The titular Mean Girls in Regina’s pink bedroom" title="The titular Mean Girls in Regina’s pink bedroom" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="© 2017 Joan Marcus" />
<p>2018 has been a slow year for musicals, with the result that odds on the best musical race are split pretty evenly between big brand tie-ins <em>Frozen</em>, <em>Spongebob</em>, and <em>Mean Girls</em>. (Thanks for playing, <em>The Band&rsquo;s Visit</em>!) <em>[Wow, that one turned out wrong. &mdash;&nbsp;Ed.]</em> <em>Spongebob</em> has a slight edge going into the Tonys, but let me take this opportunity to make the case for why <a href="https://www.vox.com/culture/2018/4/17/17219622/mean-girls-broadway-musical-screen-to-stage"><em>Mean Girls</em></a>, much like <em>fetch</em>, should happen instead.</p>

<p>Sure, <em>Mean Girls</em> is uneven: Jeff Richmond&rsquo;s score, while largely catchy, is unremarkable, and some of Nell Benjamin&rsquo;s lyrics are downright bad. (Regina George, we are warned, is &ldquo;Like a lioness / Only with less fur / Do not mess with her.&rdquo; Sure.) But Tina Fey&rsquo;s book is rock-solid, with an arc for every character, jokes galore, and a spot-on sense of how teen girls love and betray one another. And when Benjamin gets the chance to be affecting instead of trying to be funny, she&rsquo;s great; Gretchen Weiners&rsquo;s song of low self-esteem is genuinely touching.</p>

<p>Plus, the ensemble cast is one of the strongest currently on Broadway: Taylor Louderman&rsquo;s Tony-nominated turn as Regina is a standout, Barrett Wilbert Weed elevates Janis into a scene stealer, and Ashley&nbsp;Park and Kate Rockwell flesh out the Plastics beautifully.</p>

<p>In a <em>Fun Home</em> or <em>Hamilton</em> year, none of this would be enough for the top prize, but when the big competition is <em>Spongebob</em> and <em>Frozen</em>? <em>Mean Girls</em> deserves the tacky plastic prom queen crown. <em>&mdash;Constance Grady</em></p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Best Revival of a Play</h2>
<p><a href="https://angelsbroadway.com/"><em><strong>Angels in America</strong></em></a><strong> &mdash;&nbsp;WINNER</strong></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/10599733/1204_Beth_Malone_as_Angel_Alternate_in_AIA__Perestroika_Photo_by_BrinkhoffMo_genburg.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Beth Malone and Andrew Garfield in Angels in America" title="Beth Malone and Andrew Garfield in Angels in America" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Brinkhoff &amp; Mögenburg" />
<p>When the Angel crashes through the ceiling at the end of <em>Millennium Approaches </em>&mdash; the first half of the National Theatre&rsquo;s seven-and-a-half-hour revival of Tony Kushner&rsquo;s Pulitzer-winning masterpiece about the AIDS epidemic &mdash;&nbsp;it&rsquo;s as though she&rsquo;s crashing straight into your head and rearranging your mind. And as she pulls herself off the stage floor, drawing the scraps of herself together to coalesce into a single entity, it&rsquo;s like nothing you&rsquo;ve ever seen before on Broadway.</p>

<p>The Angel is traditionally an all-American Barbie, blonde and draped in flowing white robes, but under Marianne Elliott&rsquo;s direction, the Angel &mdash; like the play itself &mdash;&nbsp;becomes shaggy and ragged and feral, so alive as to be frightening.</p>

<p><em>Angels</em> is the play to beat in this category by a mile, and it&rsquo;s unlikely that any of its fellow nominees will rise to the challenge. There are other great plays in revival on Broadway this season, but <em>Angels</em> has a fierceness and a vitality that no other production can quite match. It&rsquo;s worthy of the buzz &mdash;&nbsp;and of seven and a half cumulative hours of your time. &mdash;<em>Constance Grady</em></p>

<p><a href="https://www.broadway.com/shows/lobby-hero/"><em><strong>Lobby Hero</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490685/0682_Chris_Evans__Michael_Cera_in_LOBBY_HERO__Photo_by_Joan_Marcus__2018_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Chris Evans, Michael Cera in LOBBY HERO" title="Chris Evans, Michael Cera in LOBBY HERO" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Joan Marcus" />
<p><em>Lobby Hero</em>&nbsp;is a sparse, straightforward production anchored by a Kenneth Lonergan script that lets its four characters play off each other &mdash; or, more accurately, grimace in each other&rsquo;s general directions. All are main characters in a sense, but Michael Cera&rsquo;s hesitant, smartass security guard and Brian Tyree Henry&rsquo;s grounded moral compass took center stage by curtain call. (Not that Bel Powley&rsquo;s determined rookie cop and Chris Evans&rsquo;s slimy and mustachioed superior don&rsquo;t make a mark, because when they do,&nbsp;<em>whew</em>.) Every actor clearly relished speaking Lonergan&rsquo;s words (especially when they were funny), but maybe the most striking thing about the play is that it&rsquo;s set in 2002 but just as easily could&rsquo;ve been set today. <em>&mdash;Caroline Framke</em></p>

<p><a href="http://icemanonbroadway.com/"><em><strong>Eugene O&rsquo;Neill&rsquo;s The Iceman Cometh</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490691/Denzel_Washington_in_THE_ICEMAN_COMETH.Photo_by_Julieta_Cervantes_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Denzel Washington in THE ICEMAN COMETH" title="Denzel Washington in THE ICEMAN COMETH" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Julieta Cervantes" />
<p>The current limited production of <em>Iceman</em> couldn&rsquo;t be timelier; the last time Broadway saw a staging of Eugene O&rsquo;Neill&rsquo;s landmark play, it was 1999, and the sinister lead role was played by Kevin Spacey, whose presence seemed to rigidify, rather than energize, the large cast in a way that perhaps makes sense only in retrospect.</p>

<p>Denzel Washington is better positioned than any other living actor to overwrite Spacey&rsquo;s performance. His character Hickey is a charming salesman who usually brings the party with him to the hopeless alcoholics at his local New York bar; this time, however, he brings death. In the hands of a different actor and director, Hickey&rsquo;s doomsaying could easily weigh down the entire production. But Washington has living legend George Wolfe, who turns every production he directs into a miracle of stagecraft. In his hands, O&rsquo;Neill feels lighter, funnier, and more humanist than in other recent productions; it&rsquo;s also, blessedly, a true ensemble piece &mdash; a whole hour goes by before Washington even shows up, and you barely notice.</p>

<p>Where Howard Davies&rsquo;s 1999 production revolved around Spacey, Wolfe&rsquo;s production places Washington as one of three tentpole performances, between Colm Meaney&rsquo;s beleaguered bar owner and David Morse&rsquo;s haunting, haunted ex-revolutionary. Their dynamic gives Washington room to be light, breezy, and self-deceptive even as he&rsquo;s handing out life-or-death sentences to his bar mates; his descent into madness in turn makes Morse&rsquo;s tortured, clear-eyed performance even more gripping. It&rsquo;s poetic, lively, engaging theater &mdash; and proof that O&rsquo;Neill remains one of American theater&rsquo;s shrewdest and most relevant writers. <em>&mdash;Aja Romano</em></p>

<p><a href="http://threetallwomenbroadway.com/"><em><strong>Three Tall Women</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490703/Jackson_Pill_Metcalf_Three_Tall_Women__c__Brigitte_Lacombe_4092_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Three Tall Women" title="Three Tall Women" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Brigitte Lacombe" />
<p>It&rsquo;s been weeks since I&rsquo;ve seen <em>Three Tall Women</em>, and I still think about certain parts of the play every day. Sometimes it&rsquo;ll just be a look that Glenda Jackson gave, or the way Laurie Metcalf was standing in a particular scene, or how Alison Pill&rsquo;s face sharpened when delivering a line.</p>

<p>The three tall women in <em>Three Tall Women</em>, a <a href="http://www.pulitzer.org/winners/edward-albee-1">Pulitzer Prize-winning play</a> by Edward Albee about his adoptive mother, portray two sets of characters: a lawyer, a caretaker, and an aging mother in the first act, then the same woman in different stages of her life in the second. It&rsquo;s a searing revival, one that almost feels forbidden given the depth and pain the play explores. Metcalf and Pill are excellent, but Jackson is absolutely electric, so much so that I found myself looking for her reactions, expressions, and body language even in scenes that didn&rsquo;t belong to her. <em>&mdash;Alex Abad-Santos</em></p>

<p><a href="https://www.roundabouttheatre.org/Shows-Events/Travesties.aspx"><em><strong>Travesties</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490715/_0282r2_Scarlett_Strallen__Patrick_Kerr__Dan_Butler__Opal_Alladin__Sara_Topham__Tom_Hollander__Seth_Numrich_and_Peter_McDonald_in_TRAVESTIES__Photo_by_Joan_Marcus_2018_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Scarlett Strallen, Patrick Kerr, Dan Butler, Opal Alladin, Sara Topham, Tom Hollander, Seth Numrich and Peter McDonald in TRAVESTIES" title="Scarlett Strallen, Patrick Kerr, Dan Butler, Opal Alladin, Sara Topham, Tom Hollander, Seth Numrich and Peter McDonald in TRAVESTIES" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Joan Marcus" />
<p>Tom Stoppard&rsquo;s <em>Travesties</em> is a nerdy delight of a play from 1974, and the revival seems well-timed. It takes place within the mind of Henry Carr, an old man (played in the revival by Tom Hollander) who&rsquo;s reminiscing about his time in Zurich in 1917, during the First World War. In the elderly Carr&rsquo;s recollection, a cast of familiar characters intersected in Zurich at that very moment at notable points in their lives: James Joyce (Peter McDonald), writing <em>Ulysses</em>; Tristan Tzara (Seth Numrich), at the rise of Dada; and Vladimir Lenin (Dan Butler), leading up to the Russian Revolution. But all of these people also appear, in Carr&rsquo;s mind, within the framework of Oscar Wilde&rsquo;s play <em>The Importance of Being Earnest</em>, in which he played a starring role while in Zurich.</p>

<p>There&rsquo;s some reality mixed into the fiction (the real Henry Carr actually did star in a production of <em>The Importance of Being Earnest</em>, and he appears as a figure in <em>Ulysses </em>as well). But it&rsquo;s not meant to be a historical record &mdash; nor, I imagine, would it be quite as enjoyable if you didn&rsquo;t have at least a passing familiarity with <em>Ulysses</em> and Dada and Lenin and <em>Earnest</em>.</p>

<p>What makes <em>Travesties</em> so fun is how it merrily mixes and remixes all of these elements and others, trying to replicate the hiccuping stop-and-start of our unreliable memories, while also examining whether the, well, earnest ideologies of Leninism and Dadaism and art for art&rsquo;s sake could lead to living a good life. <em>Travesties</em> is, in this way, a work of criticism that expands and expounds upon all of its many source texts, and Hollander&rsquo;s performance as the doddering Carr is so fun to watch that it&rsquo;s worth seeing even if you aren&rsquo;t totally up on your 1917 art and intellectual history. <em>&mdash;Alissa Wilkinson</em></p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Best Revival of a Musical</h2>
<p><a href="https://www.onceonthisisland.com/"><em><strong>Once on This Island</strong></em></a><strong> &mdash;&nbsp;WINNER</strong></p>
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<p>Based on the novel <em>My Love,</em> <em>My Love</em>, Trinidad-American writer Rosa Guy&rsquo;s modern retelling of <em>The Little Mermaid</em>, <em>Once on This Island </em>was probably ahead of its time when it debuted in 1990. Creative partners Lynn Ahrens and Stephen Flaherty were still years away from producing their smash hit <em>Ragtime</em>, which would prove to be a much less subtle treatise on race than <em>Island</em>&rsquo;s comparatively complicated fairy tale. The story of a peasant girl who falls in star-crossed love with an aristocrat, <em>Island</em> interwove themes of postcolonial culture clashes, class tensions, and skin-tone prejudice, all into a fun and colorful package.</p>

<p>As a longtime fan of <em>Once on This Island</em>, I&rsquo;ve frequently had to justify my love for the show to baffled theater lovers who thought it was silly (and who often hated the fairly unorthodox ending). I&rsquo;m deeply grateful, then, for this timely revival, which resurrects the musical&rsquo;s vibrance, culture-savviness, and intersectionality for a new generation of fans, all without watering down its lovely peculiarities. Hailey Kilgore&rsquo;s performance as Ti Moune is ravishing, grounding the entire production in earnest warmth, while Michael Arden&rsquo;s staging is intimate and robust. Also: Any production that casts Lea Salonga as a goddess is A-okay in my book. <em>&mdash;Aja Romano</em></p>

<p><a href="http://www.myfairladybway.com/"><em><strong>My Fair Lady</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490761/MFL_0953r2_Lauren_Ambrose__Diana_Rigg__Harry_Hadden_Paton__Allan_Corduner__and_the_company__credit_to_Joan_Marcus.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Lauren Ambrose, Diana Rigg, Harry Hadden-Paton, Allan Corduner, and the company of My Fair Lady" title="Lauren Ambrose, Diana Rigg, Harry Hadden-Paton, Allan Corduner, and the company of My Fair Lady" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Joan Marcus" />
<p>Bartlett Sher&rsquo;s staging of <em>My Fair Lady</em> was always going to have seemingly insurmountable hurdles. Lean into Henry Higgins&rsquo;s inherent misogyny and you run the risk of alienating (at least) half your audience; attempt to alleviate it as much as possible and the ending gets weird. Sher has opted for a mix of alleviation and traditionalism, and the result is pleasant and intriguing, if perhaps a bit underwhelming.</p>

<p>In the middle of a lavish, light production design &mdash; a London that whirls, often physically &mdash; the cast is the weakest element. The legendary Diana Rigg is fully resplendent, but woefully underused as Professor Higgins&rsquo;s mother. <em>Six Feet Under</em>&rsquo;s Lauren Ambrose is lovely, but her Eliza seems to be hampered by a metaphorical stage fright that never fully dissipates. That&rsquo;s an odd choice, given how fully this production relies on Eliza&rsquo;s independence as it nixes any and all hints of sexual tension between her and Higgins. In that role, <em>Downton Abbey</em>&rsquo;s<em> </em>Harry Hadden-Paton is underrated and brilliant, as he pulls off the herculean feat of staying likable and ensuring that Higgins still makes sense as a character who&rsquo;s, in this production, essentially asexual.</p>

<p>Sher presents <em>My Fair Lady </em>as a story of found family rather than a story of a battle between the sexes. We&rsquo;ve finally arrived at a cultural point where such a reading makes the most narrative and emotional sense, but this interpretation has its limits, and Sher seems to sidestep it at crucial moments. The result is that this production comes off as a thought experiment &mdash; but it&rsquo;s one you won&rsquo;t forget anytime soon. <em>&mdash;Aja Romano</em></p>

<p><a href="http://carouselbroadway.com/"><em><strong>Rodgers &amp; Hammerstein&rsquo;s Carousel</strong></em></a></p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/11490771/Brittany_Pollack_in_CAROUSEL.Photo_by_Julieta_Cervantes_preview.jpeg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Brittany Pollack in CAROUSEL" title="Brittany Pollack in CAROUSEL" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="" data-portal-copyright="Julieta Cervantes" />
<p>Ah, <em>Carousel</em>: the most beautiful musical in celebration of domestic violence you&rsquo;re ever likely to see. The show boasts one of Rodgers and Hammerstein&rsquo;s most lush and  bittersweet scores, but modern audiences are likely to squirm with discomfort as the show&rsquo;s troubled hero, doomed Billy Bigelow (the great Joshua Henry), hits first his wife Julie (the equally great Jessie Mueller) and then his child, only for both of them to explain that it&rsquo;s okay because they know he loves them.</p>

<p>But oh, that music is achingly lovely, and so is Jack O&rsquo;Brien&rsquo;s somber direction, with the lurid lights of the carousel gleaming relentlessly out from between choreographer Justin Peck&rsquo;s ever-moving dancers. And the first scene &mdash; a series of half-comic courtship vignettes that culminate in Billy and Julie&rsquo;s melancholy duet, &ldquo;If I Loved You&rdquo; &mdash; can stand on its own as a perfect one-act play.</p>

<p>Then you get to the fun domestic violence portion of your evening. This production cuts the infamous line about how it&rsquo;s possible for someone to hit you and for it to feel like a kiss, but it can&rsquo;t avoid Julie&rsquo;s ode to standing by your abusive man, &ldquo;What&rsquo;s the Use of Wond&rsquo;ring.&rdquo; (&ldquo;You&rsquo;re his girl and he&rsquo;s your feller / And all the rest is talk.&rdquo; Not with modern divorce laws, Julie!) <em>Carousel</em> is a beautiful play, but it&rsquo;s an irreparably troubled one too. <em>&mdash;Constance Grady</em></p>
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<p><strong>Update</strong>: This post has been updated to note the winners.</p>
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							<summary type="html"><![CDATA[When Prince Charles married Lady Diana Spencer in 1981, it was the most lavish wedding the world had ever seen. It&#8217;s often discussed in terms of numbers: the 2,500 guests at St. Paul&#8217;s Cathedral, the 750 million people watching at home on TV, the 10,000 pearls and 25-foot train on Diana&#8217;s dress, the 27 weddings [&#8230;]]]></summary>
			
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<p class="is-lead has-drop-cap">When Prince Charles married Lady Diana Spencer in 1981, it was the most lavish wedding the world had ever seen. It&rsquo;s often discussed in terms of numbers: the 2,500 guests at St. Paul&rsquo;s Cathedral, the 750 million people watching at home on TV, the 10,000 pearls and 25-foot train on Diana&rsquo;s dress, the 27 weddings cakes served at the reception. The event was estimated to have cost <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/02/23/business/global/23iht-royal23.html">&pound;30 million</a>, equivalent to around $140 million today.</p>

<p>The entire affair was <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/1981/07/27/world/as-wedding-nears-palace-leaves-nothing-to-chance.html">planned by Lord Maclean</a>; having held the title of Lord Chamberlain at the time, he was the royal household&rsquo;s senior officer in charge of court ceremony, which includes weddings and funerals. When Charles and Diana&rsquo;s son Prince William married Kate Middleton 30 years later in a wedding believed to have cost $34 million, the Lord Chamberlain&rsquo;s office planned the daytime ceremony at Westminster Abbey (as is customary, the invitations read, <em>The Lord Chamberlain is commanded by The Queen to invite&#8230;</em>), but the evening party at Buckingham Palace was organized by the event planning firm Fait Accompli. Last month, Fait Accompli planned Kate&rsquo;s sister Pippa&rsquo;s wedding.</p>

<p>This doesn&rsquo;t illustrate a break from tradition so much as a shift in how weddings work now. Three decades ago, wedding planners were rare. The wealthy relied on social secretaries or other members of their staffs to plan family events, and even those events were relatively small-scale; everyone else planned their own, perhaps with the help of a savvy friend or neighbor. Then Charles and Diana&rsquo;s wedding happened, igniting the imaginations of brides across the world. You too could have a fairy tale wedding of your own, provided you had the funds. And as weddings became more elaborate, the need for specialized wedding planners grew too.</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8632493/image___Greg_Finck_for_Sarah_Haywood_Wedding_Design_1098_copy.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="A dinner setting at a château wedding in France planned by Sarah Haywood." title="A dinner setting at a château wedding in France planned by Sarah Haywood." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="The dinner setting at a chateau wedding in France, planned by Sarah Haywood. | Photo: Greg Finck for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Greg Finck for Sarah Haywood" />
<p>There are all manner of wedding planners now, all around the world. But a select few &mdash; a group that numbers about 20 &mdash; plan the highest-end events, the weddings of the very, very rich.</p>

<p>One such planner is Sarah Haywood. Sarah hates the title wedding planner; she thinks it conjures up the image of &ldquo;some silly girl&rdquo; like Jennifer Lopez&rsquo;s character in <em>The Wedding Planner</em>. The events she plans are huge productions; the title belittles her and her team. But she&rsquo;s also practical. &ldquo;If you put down wedding producer as a search term on a website, you wouldn&#8217;t get any work, so for SEO purposes I&#8217;m a wedding planner,&rdquo; she says wryly.</p>

<p>She works almost exclusively with high net-worth individuals, most of whom are business moguls, with the occasional royal or celebrity mixed in. Celebrities never want to pay for things, she notes. Only the A-listers do &mdash; everyone else, &ldquo;reality TV stars and the like, they&#8217;re after just something for nothing.&rdquo; They also don&rsquo;t typically have the kind of money that a standard client of Sarah&rsquo;s does. &ldquo;The very wealthy,&rdquo; she explains, &ldquo;I mean the <em>uber</em>-wealthy, they lead very different lives than the wealthy.&rdquo;</p>
<figure class="wp-block-pullquote alignleft"><blockquote><p>“The very wealthy, I mean the <em>uber</em>-wealthy, they lead very different lives than the wealthy.”</p></blockquote></figure>
<p>There are believed to be at least <a href="http://www.cnbc.com/2017/03/09/the-worlds-billionaires-are-now-worth-8-trillion.html">2,257 billionaires in the world</a>. Their collective wealth totals $8 trillion, more than 10 percent of the global economy. There are 55 percent more billionaires now than there were just five years ago, and given the secretive nature of the ultrarich, there may in fact be a couple thousand more hidden billionaires scattered around the globe.</p>

<p>Then there&rsquo;s that term, <a href="http://money.cnn.com/2014/06/01/luxury/rich-wealth-gap/">ultrarich</a>, which refers not only to billionaires, but anyone with a net worth exceeding $100 million. They are the 0.01 percent, to the billionaires&rsquo; 0.0001 percent. There are thousands of them. The richest of the rich can get whatever they want, whenever they want it. There are no obstacles to their material desires.</p>

<p>&ldquo;The uber-wealthy have staff around them. It&#8217;s very difficult to get to them. I often don&#8217;t have direct contact with them,&rdquo; Sarah continues. She doesn&rsquo;t, for instance, know the name of one of her very favorite clients, who also didn&rsquo;t divulge to her what he did for a living. She only found out his occupation after a security company hired for the event figured out his mother&rsquo;s name and followed information from there; the client&rsquo;s own name still remains a mystery.</p>

<p>Sarah&rsquo;s company is based in London because of the city&rsquo;s status as an international hub. She has British clients and American clients, Eastern European clients and Middle Eastern clients, but half of her clients are from Asia.</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8632849/image___Filmatography_for_Sarah_Haywood_Weddings___Celebrations_copy_3.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="A long table is set for 120 guests outside in Provence, France." title="A long table is set for 120 guests outside in Provence, France." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="A rehearsal dinner set for 120 guests in Provence. | Photo: Flimatography for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Flimatography for Sarah Haywood" /><figure class="wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-1 wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex"><img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8632939/image___Greg_Finck_for_Sarah_Haywood_Weddings___Celebrations_copy_18_crop.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Silver bowl full of caviar" title="Silver bowl full of caviar" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="A bowl of caviar at the château wedding. | Photo: Greg Finck for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Greg Finck for Sarah Haywood" />
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8632945/image___Greg_Finck_for_Sarah_Haywood_Weddings___Celebrations_copy_14_crop.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="A waiter serves a Jeroboam of Cristal Champagne at a ‘Great Gatsby’ welcome party in Florence." title="A waiter serves a Jeroboam of Cristal Champagne at a ‘Great Gatsby’ welcome party in Florence." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="Cristal served at a ‘Great Gatsby’ welcome party in Florence. | Photo: Greg Finck for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Greg Finck for Sarah Haywood" />
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<p>&ldquo;That&#8217;s a problem for us at the moment because, certainly in mainland China, the wealthy are having issues displaying their wealth,&rdquo; she says. Weddings in China are a civic event &mdash; you go to a local government office, sign a piece of paper, maybe go out for a meal. Her clients are looking for the romance they&rsquo;ve seen in Hollywood movies, living out their wildest wedding fantasies in France or Italy or England. &ldquo;It&#8217;s frowned upon, so they don&#8217;t want to be ostentatious in their own country, which is great because they&#8217;ll come and be ostentatious around Europe, which we love, but at the moment they&#8217;re finding it tough. My legacy clients, if that&#8217;s what you call them, they tell us things are very different to how they were a few years ago.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Until this year, Sarah&rsquo;s lead time for event planning was 12 to 16 weeks, but now people are planning a bit further ahead, which she attributes to anxiety about the state of the world. Things feel less stable. Even the very wealthy are nervous about what Brexit and Donald Trump mean for them and the economic climate.</p>

<p>Sarah prefers a shorter planning window; it makes clients easier to manage. &ldquo;They change their minds a lot because they live a life where what they want right here, right now is what&#8217;s important, and they&#8217;re not used to planning. They don&#8217;t need to plan for a year because they can hire someone like me who can make it happen now.&rdquo; She once planned a wedding in 18 days.</p>

<p>Sarah likens her job to that of an orchestra conductor or an army general. She&rsquo;s coordinating at the highest level, making sure her multiday events go off without a hitch. Timing is everything. The smallest details matter. Service is key.</p>

<p>&ldquo;Whoever you are,&rdquo; she says, &ldquo;your wedding day has got to be a day that&#8217;s more special than every other day. So if you already lead a life that to you and me would be incredibly special &mdash; staying in the world&#8217;s finest hotels, traveling there in your own private jet, homes all over the world, finest cars, finest food, couture clothing &mdash; and then you say to me, &lsquo;I need you to give me a day that&#8217;s more special than my everyday life,&rsquo; that&#8217;s the difficulty, that&#8217;s the challenge, and that&#8217;s what I have to deliver.&rdquo;</p>
<figure class="wp-block-pullquote alignleft"><blockquote><p>“Whoever you are, your wedding day has got to be a day that&#039;s more special than every other day.”</p></blockquote></figure>
<p>Sarah says clients never come to her with a budget, but that doesn&rsquo;t mean they don&rsquo;t negotiate. &ldquo;There&#8217;s a very common misconception that the wealthy don&#8217;t care about money or aren&#8217;t good with money. They are very savvy with money, and they will argue with me and budget with me down to the dollar.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Luxury wedding planners like Sarah often work with event designers, who are in charge of aesthetics: lighting, flowers, the cake, anything that&rsquo;s visual, down to the speakers that the band will be using. The goal is a cohesive visual narrative.</p>

<p>Preston Bailey is one of the biggest names in luxury wedding design. He started off as a florist known for his over-the-top arrangements. He finds the ultrarich client the most interesting and difficult to please.</p>

<p>&ldquo;Luxury is lush, luxury is unique,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;Luxury is creating an event that as people walk in, tells a story, an entertaining story. This is a clientele that you just can&#8217;t bring them in for three hours and put them in a room and that&#8217;s it. You have to create levels of entertainment.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Luxury, for them, is something that&rsquo;s never been seen before.</p>

<p>Preston has manifested this in Melissa Rivers&rsquo;s winter wonderland wedding, which has since gotten copied the world over, and Sean Parker&rsquo;s <a href="http://www.vanityfair.com/news/2013/09/photos-sean-parker-wedding">enchanted forest nuptials</a>, where each guest was outfitted by <em>Lord of the Rings</em> costume designer Ngila Dickson.</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8633035/ND8_0588_2.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="" title="" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="Sean Parker’s enchanted forest wedding in Big Sur, California designed by Preston Bailey. | Photo: Preston Bailey" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Preston Bailey" />
<p>There was also George Soros&rsquo;s third wedding, which he compares to a theater production, massive and intricate. And Donald Trump&rsquo;s third wedding, as well as weddings for two of Trump&rsquo;s children.</p>

<p>&ldquo;As a groom, he was great,&rdquo; Preston says of Trump, though he won&rsquo;t comment on his former client&rsquo;s political career. &ldquo;When we did Ivanka&#8217;s wedding, he was a typical father of the bride that wanted to have everything perfect.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Preston often designs original structures, both temporary and permanent, for weddings he works on, particularly royal weddings in the Middle East. Preston can&rsquo;t name his royal clients, but he can name countries: Saudi Arabia, the United Arab Emirates, Kuwait, Bahrain, Qatar. He&rsquo;s also designed weddings in Hong Kong, in Colombia, in the south of France, in India.</p>

<p>&ldquo;We have done events where we have built cities and buildings, so you can figure out that clearly that comes with a price,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;Hiring architects and engineers and everything else to put an entire space together is costly.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&ldquo;The way people spend a lot of money is big design,&rdquo; echoes Sarah, &ldquo;so not just flowers on tables, but big, huge installations. Transforming spaces that could take days, if not weeks, to build. Hiring headline acts, that eats a lot of money up.&rdquo;</p>
<figure class="wp-block-pullquote alignleft"><blockquote><p>“We have done events where we have built cities and buildings, so you can figure out that clearly that comes with a price.”</p></blockquote></figure>
<p>Celebrity performers were novel just a decade ago, but now they&rsquo;re something of a norm. John Mayer, Katy Perry, and Chris Martin have all been hired to perform at private weddings. Earlier this year, both <a href="http://people.com/music/mariah-carey-elton-john-wedding-russian-billionaire/">Mariah Carey and Elton John performed</a> at the wedding of a Russian billionaire&rsquo;s granddaughter, while Mark Ronson DJed. Sarah actually blames her Russian clients for the trend &ldquo;because they are the people who started hiring them for everything: 18th birthday parties, 21st birthday parties, wedding anniversaries, not just weddings. They diluted the uniqueness of that. Now we have weddings where one headliner isn&#8217;t enough; they need three or four. Then you hit problems as to what order do you put them on in.&rdquo; Tell a big name that she&rsquo;s not the headliner, and she&rsquo;ll drop out.</p>

<p>Performance fees are complicated. Is the artist on tour and in performance mode? Where in the world will she be at the time, and where is the wedding? How inconvenient is the ask? One artist may be down the road that weekend and happy to earn half a million dollars to perform; a few months later, she may charge four times that since she&rsquo;ll have to leave a family vacation to make it happen.</p>

<p>Then there are the technical specifications to contend with. &ldquo;If you hire John Legend,&rdquo; says Sarah, &ldquo;he will only perform using a particular Yamaha piano, and that&#8217;s because he&#8217;s going to sit down, he&#8217;s going to play, and it&#8217;s got to be exactly as it would&#8217;ve been if he was performing at the Grammys.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Sarah uses an agency to book acts now, and encourages clients to give a number they&rsquo;re willing to spend. From there, the agency can tell them who is available in that part of the world for that amount of money. If you don&rsquo;t want to spend millions, or even hundreds of thousands, you can try for a reality TV contestant; Sarah says an <em>X Factor</em> or<em> Idol</em> finalist might command a mere $80,000 fee. Bands who have gone off the radar and are looking to make a comeback can come at more reasonable prices (relatively speaking), too.</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8633105/image___CarlaTenEyck.com_for_Sarah_Haywood_Weddings_and_Celebrations.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Helicopter in front of a castle in Scotland" title="Helicopter in front of a castle in Scotland" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="Guests arrive to a castle via helicopter for a wedding in Scotland. | Photo: Carla Ten Eyck for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Carla Ten Eyck for Sarah Haywood" />
<p>The bride&rsquo;s wedding gown is another large line item. It&rsquo;s not just about buying designer &mdash; it&rsquo;s about getting a 100 percent one-of-a-kind dress (or in many cases, several dresses). Couture services for a designer like Monique Lhuillier, who sells $20,000 collection gowns, start at $55,000. The lace, the beading &mdash; everything is custom. Among the most elaborate dresses she has made is one with a skirt of rolled organza roses and a 50-foot train. Couture brides make an average of five trips to Monique&rsquo;s atelier in Los Angeles for the fittings, from as far away as London, the Philippines, and Australia.</p>

<p>Costs also add up when you&rsquo;re serving the nicest wines, the best food; it&rsquo;s a challenge to scale quality when it comes to fine dining. Last year, one of Sarah&rsquo;s weddings served 20 kilos of caviar. She had to install a kitchen safe for the eggs, and hire someone to guard it. (For context, high-end Osetra caviar can run nearly $4,000 a kilo.)</p>

<p>And of course, these celebrations last for many days. &ldquo;Why have the guests travel and put up just one event?&rdquo; asks Preston. &ldquo;You should at least have three of them. For the luxury client, they can afford to give as many parties as they want to.&rdquo;</p>
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<p class="has-drop-cap">Nell Diamond was 25 when she got engaged in March 2014, the first of her friends to do so. Her husband, Teddy, is 10 years her senior and they had met through mutual friends. She was in business school at Yale at the time of the engagement, and decided to get married over her fall break in October so she wouldn&rsquo;t have to miss class. She&rsquo;s an overthinker, she says, so a short engagement was helpful.</p>

<p>The couple settled on an engagement party at the Guggenheim Museum in New York City followed by a wedding at H&ocirc;tel du Cap-Eden-Roc in the south of France, where Nell had spent time as a kid. It&rsquo;s also where she and Teddy took one of their first trips together as a couple. She knew there would be guests coming from all over the world; no matter where her wedding was, people would have to travel.</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8635867/WASSERMAN_4126.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Nell Diamond in her wedding dress and Teddy Wasserman in a tux in front of the Hôtel du Cap." title="Nell Diamond in her wedding dress and Teddy Wasserman in a tux in front of the Hôtel du Cap." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="Nell Diamond and Teddy Wasserman in front of the Hôtel du Cap. | Photo: Fred Marigaux" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Fred Marigaux" />
<p>Her family&rsquo;s American, and she now lives in New York where she runs her own bedding company, <a href="https://www.hillhousehome.com/">Hill House Home</a>, but she grew up in London, where her father Bob Diamond worked at Barclays, eventually rising to the position of chief executive at the British bank. She had spent some time living in Tokyo, too. Teddy&rsquo;s family is from Baltimore. France was easy enough for her British guests to get to, and there&rsquo;s a direct flight to Nice from New York for the American contingent.</p>

<p>Nell and Teddy wanted to celebrate their marriage, but also their friends who had come all the way to France for the weekend. The goal was a mini&ndash;summer camp of sorts, full of activities for their 200 guests. &ldquo;They signed up for three days, and we said, &lsquo;Let&#8217;s take care of everything. We&#8217;ll just give you this incredible, fun experience.&rsquo; I&#8217;m sure we could have figured it out somewhere else, but it was just the perfect place to do it. There&#8217;s so much to do on that property and it&#8217;s big enough to fit everyone as well.&rdquo;</p>

<p>The H&ocirc;tel du Cap is one of the world&rsquo;s most glamorous hotels, set at the tip of Cap d&rsquo;Antibes on the French Riviera, surrounded by pine trees and palm trees alike. It overlooks the Mediterranean Sea, which you can access by jumping off the hotel&rsquo;s famed diving board, and features a basalt rock infinity pool immortalized by photographer Slim Aarons. The resort&rsquo;s guests include more than a 100 years&rsquo; worth of heads of state, celebrities, and artists.</p>

<p>Nell uses words like &ldquo;lucky&rdquo; and &ldquo;grateful&rdquo; when discussing her wedding. She knows weddings like hers are not the norm. &ldquo;We said to all of our guests, &lsquo;We get it. We&#8217;re totally ridiculous freaks. We&#8217;re having a wedding in the south of France in the middle of October. You all have lives. It&rsquo;s okay if you don&#8217;t come,&rsquo;&rdquo; she explains. &ldquo;That was really important &mdash; not making people feel like they are forced to come. The entitlements surrounding weddings can be really scary.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Fait Accompli, the same London-based events company that planned Will and Kate&rsquo;s wedding party, planned Nell&rsquo;s wedding too; her father had met Fait Accompli managing director Alex Fitzgibbons through business associates. Having a European planner made sense for a European wedding. She also liked the firm&rsquo;s professionalism and discretion. &ldquo;My wedding was certainly not under the radar, but there were intentions of it being. I liked the way they operated.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Most guests arrived on Thursday afternoon, and with the exception of those who owned houses nearby, stayed at H&ocirc;tel du Cap, where the couple had subsidized the rooms, the smallest of which run for around $600 a night on October weekends. Making use of the pool and diving board was the first order of business for most, followed by a family-style welcome dinner where a local band serenaded the guests. Activity cards were filled out for Friday and Saturday &mdash; you could go on a tour of Old Nice, explore the Picasso Museum, take a boat trip to a monk-run vineyard, enjoy a guided bike race through the mountains. P&eacute;tanque courts were set up, replete with local p&eacute;tanque champions, to teach guests the French game that&rsquo;s similar to bocce. On Friday night, a rehearsal party DJed by Diamond&rsquo;s friends Chelsea Leyland and Mia Moretti was hosted at a little beach bar.</p>
<figure class="wp-block-pullquote alignleft"><blockquote><p>“I want to see what people choose when they are given the tools to choose. It gives me ideas. It makes me happy to see people on the best day of their lives.”</p></blockquote></figure>
<p>And then on Saturday night, the main event, the wedding ceremony, held at sunset.</p>

<p>Nell also counts Olivier Theyskens and Prabal Gurung among her inner circle, and so they made her dresses for the evening. &ldquo;I love the look of a corset and I love a waist and I love drama,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;Olivier just went with that. He would send me swatches for the fabric, and then the embroidery, and then I had three fittings. It was the most incredible thing I could have ever even imagined wearing, and it&#8217;s made even more special by the fact that someone that I love made it for me.&rdquo;</p>

<p>She loved the visual, the theater of her 10-foot train disappearing down the aisle that stretched from the hotel&rsquo;s grand entrance to the sea and took five minutes to walk. &ldquo;I know this is very obnoxious,&rdquo; she concedes, &ldquo;but they had to take out the revolving door of the hotel to fit me through it because the train was so big.&rdquo; Prabal made her reception look, a flowy, Grecian-style dress that contrasted with Olivier&rsquo;s structured gown and required no such door removal.</p>

<p>If you happened to spend any time online that weekend, or the week or so that followed, you likely know much of this. Thanks to Instagram, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/nellandteddy/">#nellandteddy</a> almost immediately went viral. &ldquo;I&rsquo;m such a social media person, so there was no question that I was going to be posting a lot,&rdquo; says Nell. But she had no sense that her wedding would get the kind of attention that it did.</p>

<p>The event provided plenty of photogenic moments, to be sure, but in the fall of 2014, Instagram was different than it is now. A noncelebrity wedding going viral was unusual. Nonetheless, in retrospect, it was a perfect storm. Instagram had no Stories function at the time, and so people posted in-the-moment photos on their accounts more freely; wedding hashtags were also just starting to pick up steam. It helped that Nell and her friends were active Instagrammers with their own followings, and given the late-in-the-wedding-season timing, it was a bit easier for pictures to break through.</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8635989/FA103_Nell_Teddy_Ceremony_684.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="Nell and Teddy stand under the wedding huppah during the ceremony, which overlooks the Mediterranean Sea." title="Nell and Teddy stand under the wedding huppah during the ceremony, which overlooks the Mediterranean Sea." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="The wedding ceremony overlooking the Mediterranean Sea. | Photo: Shaun James Cox" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Shaun James Cox" />
<p>Nell noticed something was happening while she was getting her hair and makeup done for the ceremony. She was getting new followers, and the hashtag was being used by people who weren&rsquo;t even at the wedding but were hoping to get traction for their own photos via the trending #nellandteddy. <em>Harper&rsquo;s Bazaar</em> picked up on the activity and <a href="http://www.harpersbazaar.com/wedding/photos/news/a4065/nell-diamond-wedding-photos/">aggregated some of the best Instagrams</a> in a post, as did the <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2800197/is-spectacular-wedding-dress-olivier-theyskens-designs-cinderella-gown-ex-barclay-s-chief-s-daughter-nell-south-france-extravaganza.html"><em>Daily Mail</em></a>, <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/nell-diamond-wedding-photos-2014-10">Business Insider</a>, and the <a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/nell-diamond-marries-south-france-article-1.1980830"><em>New York Daily News</em></a>, among others. The next month, a <a href="http://www.vogue.com/article/nell-diamond-teddy-wasserman-wedding-france">feature on <em>Vogue</em>&rsquo;s website</a> written by a friend who attended the wedding and works at the magazine went live; an <a href="https://intothegloss.com/2014/12/nell-diamond-wedding-photos/">Into the Gloss story</a> followed the next.</p>

<p>&ldquo;When I got back to business school, and I went into a class, someone asked me how my wedding was,&rdquo; says Nell. &ldquo;And someone else was like, &lsquo;You <em>know</em> how her wedding was. We all know how her wedding was! We all have Instagram!&rsquo;&rdquo; A friend of a friend joked that it was her version of the Olympics, scrolling through the hashtag and watching it get updated. Nell took it as a compliment; she too loves to scroll through people&rsquo;s feeds and see what their lives are like.</p>

<p>&ldquo;I hope that people aren&#8217;t hate-stalking these things. I want to see what people choose when they are given the tools to choose. It gives me ideas. It makes me happy to see people on the best day of their lives,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;The feminist in me gets a little riled up about the idea that in my online life, the things that I am most celebrated for are getting married and having a baby, when I&#8217;m so much more than that. But I try to not take that dark approach and think about it as, no, we all just want to see these joyful life moments.&rdquo;</p>
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<p class="has-drop-cap">Wedding data is hard to come by, but according to a survey of 13,000 American brides and grooms <a href="http://xogroupinc.com/press-releases/theknot2016realweddings_costofweddingsus/">by the Knot</a>, the average cost of a wedding in 2016 was $33,329. Manhattan saw the highest average cost, at $78,464. Twenty percent of weddings were considered destination weddings.</p>

<p>Marcy Blum wrote <em>Weddings for Dummies</em>. She jokes that she and her friends &mdash; among them, Sarah and Preston &mdash; &ldquo;created these lunatics,&rdquo; these everyday brides who want luxury-grade weddings. &ldquo;We tell them, &lsquo;You can&#8217;t have a napkin that doesn&#8217;t have a monogram on it. You have to have the save the date. You have to have a 16-day wedding.&rsquo; It&#8217;s our fault.&rdquo;</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8636005/Racked_Photo_1_.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="A rooftop wedding in Croatia." title="A rooftop wedding in Croatia." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="A rooftop wedding reception Marcy Blum planned in Croatia. | Photo: Marcy Blum" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Marcy Blum" />
<p>But Marcy defines a true luxury wedding as one starting at, all costs factored in, $1,500 a head. Preston finds that figure conservative, citing the $3,000 to $5,000 range as what couples spend for &ldquo;five-star weddings.&rdquo; Many, if not most, of Marcy and Preston&rsquo;s weddings are destination; most of Sarah&rsquo;s are too.</p>

<p>&ldquo;At a wedding, that&#8217;s when you can really see that all of a sudden, &lsquo;Oh my God, they really have money,&rsquo;&rdquo; says Marcy. Among the ultrarich, though, there&rsquo;s a divide between how wealth is shown. &ldquo;Old money, like Rockefeller money &mdash; I work for a lot of the fifth generation &mdash; they want it to be lovely, but you&#8217;re never going to talk them into serving Dom P&eacute;rignon, not in 20 million years.&rdquo; She notes that old-money clients &ldquo;will put the au pairs and the nannies and whoever raised them at the head table,&rdquo; which she considers diametrically opposed to new-money clients and their flashy indicators of affluence.</p>

<p>Her Russian clients are responsible for the showiest affairs she&rsquo;s put on. She points to a photo of a 500-person weddings she threw at the Waldorf Astoria for a Russian client that sits in her office. &ldquo;They were very generous and lovely,&rdquo; she says, &ldquo;but it is as if you had to take everything out of your closet and put it on the table and show it, because otherwise you look poor or stingy. I don&#8217;t know which is worse, to be poor or stingy, but neither one of them are considered very good. I&#8217;ve never had one of my Russian clients ever say to me, &lsquo;Are you serious?&rsquo;&rdquo;</p>
<figure class="wp-block-pullquote alignleft"><blockquote><p>“I don&#039;t know which is worse, to be poor or stingy, but neither one of them are considered very good.”</p></blockquote></figure>
<p>When she planned LeBron James&rsquo;s wedding, it was a different experience. The NBA star was much more circumspect in his spending; Marcy and LeBron&rsquo;s then-fianc&eacute;e, Savannah, would go on Target runs together. &ldquo;He always said, &lsquo;I know where I came from, I&#8217;m not going back there. This is what I think is reasonable.&rsquo;&rdquo; She gets it, of course, but it&rsquo;s not as fun. &ldquo;I&#8217;d much prefer a Russian client,&rdquo; she says with a wink.</p>

<p>LeBron&rsquo;s wedding had a strict no-phone, no-camera policy. Scour the internet, and you&rsquo;ll find very few details about and absolutely no images of the event. (<a href="http://www.hothothoops.com/2013/9/15/4733428/lebron-james-wedding-pictures-and-details-begin-trickling-in">Pre-wedding outfit pics</a> from friends like Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union are the closest you&rsquo;ll get.) A guest, however, did leak the save the date card <a href="http://www.tmz.com/2013/03/07/lebron-james-save-the-date-wedding-san-diego-savannah-brinson/">to TMZ</a>, which contributed to the fact that the actual invitation, sent months later, didn&rsquo;t provide any real information. Guests had to call a private hotline to find out where and when the ceremony and reception were taking place.</p>

<p>The Jameses&rsquo; approach to privacy isn&rsquo;t unusual, nor is it limited to celebrities. You&rsquo;ll never see or hear about the vast majority of high-end weddings that take place.</p>

<p>&ldquo;Ninety-nine percent do not want it discussed, talked about, featured in wedding magazines,&rdquo; Sarah Haywood says of her clients. &ldquo;I don&#8217;t really want them either because the average wedding magazine, what they think a luxury wedding is, they&#8217;d pee their pants if they came to one of ours. It&#8217;s a different level, so I don&#8217;t want them condensed into, &lsquo;Oh, the bride wore this, and this cost this.&rsquo; They always want to know what it cost, but it&rsquo;s vulgar to discuss what it cost at that level. It is just not nice to talk about what it cost.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Nondisclosure agreements are commonplace in the wedding industry. Oftentimes, planners can talk about events they&rsquo;ve thrown, but they can&rsquo;t attach them to specific clients. Photos can be posted on planners&rsquo; and vendors&rsquo; websites and social media accounts, but without people and only after the event has concluded.</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8636057/image___Eppel_for_Sarah_Haywood_Weddings___Celebrations.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="" title="" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="An intimate wedding Sarah Haywood planned in Ibiza. | Photo: Eppel for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Eppel for Sarah Haywood" />
<p>Some couples, however, go the opposite route and actually hire public relations firms to get them press placement. &ldquo;I tell people that and they&#8217;re blown away,&rdquo; says Alexandra Macon, who covers weddings for Vogue.com and also for her own site, <a href="http://overthemoon.com/">Over the Moon</a>. It&rsquo;s not just couples that get the resulting exposure, though. &ldquo;There are so many people creating this beautiful event, that it&#8217;s almost nice to have a PR person on the back end making sure it gets featured somewhere and making sure the person featuring it references everyone so they get credit for the hard work they did.&rdquo;</p>

<p>One such company is Maid of Social, which provides social media and PR strategy for weddings. Most of the weddings it does are luxury weddings, because of the extra cost investment such a service entails. The company&rsquo;s <a href="http://www.maidofsocial.com/prices/">&ldquo;5-carat&rdquo; package</a> will get you a 360-degree social media strategy that includes an editorial partnership on Instagram and/or Snapchat, as well as press placement confirmed in advance. It also promises &ldquo;connections to non-traditional wedding brands to secure product placements.&rdquo; The price for the top-of-the-line service is typically around $5,000, but can run as much as five times that.</p>

<p><strong>&ldquo;</strong>If they&#8217;re going to spend over a certain amount,&rdquo; says Maid of Social co-founder Heather Hall, &nbsp;&ldquo;we&#8217;ve found that people really want to show it off. Not in a &lsquo;look at me&rsquo; way, but in a way where they want to be able to share this really special moment with all of their friends and family.&rdquo; And potentially millions of strangers too, of course.</p>
<figure class="wp-block-pullquote alignleft"><blockquote><p><strong>“</strong>If they&#039;re going to spend over a certain amount, we&#039;ve found that people really want to show it off.”</p></blockquote></figure>
<p><em>Vogue</em>&rsquo;s website is a coveted coverage destination. In the two-and-half years since the site featured Nell&rsquo;s wedding, it&rsquo;s gone all in on wedding coverage. What was once a smattering of one-off stories is now a <a href="http://www.vogue.com/living/weddings">full-fledged subvertical</a> of the site. Vogue.com is a veritable repository for weddings of the ultrarich, particularly those with social media juice behind them. It&rsquo;s there that you&rsquo;ll find a first-person account of the <a href="http://www.vogue.com/article/noor-fares-noormandie-wedding-normandy-france">#noormandie wedding</a> (&ldquo;It all kicked off with an Arabian Nights&ndash;themed pre-party where an entire souk of the finest kind was dreamed up for guests&rdquo;), and a <a href="http://www.vogue.com/article/kyly-zakheim-ryan-rabin-safari-wedding-south-africa-londolozi">detailed write-up</a> of &ldquo;a safari wedding in the heart of South Africa&rsquo;s Kruger National Park.&rdquo;</p>

<p><em>Town &amp; Country </em>is another favored outlet; chronicling high-society weddings is part of the magazine&rsquo;s DNA. &ldquo;We&#8217;ve covered pretty much every Vanderbilt wedding there ever was, and the Roosevelts, Kennedys, Melons, Astors,&rdquo; says assistant editor Leena Kim, who heads up the magazine&rsquo;s monthly wedding column. <em>T&amp;C</em> also puts out a twice-yearly wedding supplement. &rdquo;We&#8217;re always trying to find and highlight interesting, important, and influential members of this 1 percent crowd that we cover.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&ldquo;A lot of it is the social importance and the status symbol aspect of it,&rdquo; Leena continues. &ldquo;There&rsquo;s some sort of glorification to having your wedding in the magazine. If you think about weddings historically, especially high-society weddings, they were the most important event of that year.&rdquo;</p>

<p>People ask Marcy how she can live with herself, throwing wildly extravagant events for wildly wealthy people, when so many in the world have so little. She explains to them that the cost is irrelevant for her clients. None have to take out second mortgages, or go into any amount of debt, or do anything that she herself would have to do to have one of these weddings.</p>

<p>&ldquo;It&#8217;s not going to affect their lifestyle,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;For generations upon generations, it&#8217;s not going to affect anything. I talk about this constantly. I&#8217;m a very left-leaning Democrat and very anti-Trump, but at the end of the day, I&#8217;m a capitalist. That doesn&#8217;t mean you lie, steal, kill people to make money, but it means that you believe that you&#8217;re allowed to <em>make</em> money.&rdquo;</p>
<figure class="wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-1 wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex"><img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8636189/image___Greg_Finck_for_Sarah_Haywood_Wedding_Design_1098_copy_4_crop.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="A bride in her wedding dress outside the French château where her wedding was held." title="A bride in her wedding dress outside the French château where her wedding was held." data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="A bride outside the French château where her wedding was held. | Photo: Greg Finck for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Greg Finck for Sarah Haywood" />
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8636219/image___Filmatography_for_Sarah_Haywood_Weddings___Celebrations_copy_5_crop.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="A peacock whose tail is made out of fresh orchids" title="A peacock whose tail is made out of fresh orchids" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="A London wedding featured six peacocks with tails made of fresh orchids. | Photo: Flimatography for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Flimatography for Sarah Haywood" />
</figure>
<p>She saw her clients and their peers demonized during the recession. She thought it was unfair, myopic. &ldquo;Most of my clients, yes, are very rich. They are also the people that, you walk into a hospital, you see their names on all the wings. It&#8217;s not like they were like, &lsquo;I&#8217;m going to have this wedding, so everyone can die. I don&#8217;t care.&rsquo; They&#8217;re doing both.&rdquo;</p>

<p>There is a point at which these events can tip into parody, though. A <a href="http://www.townandcountrymag.com/the-scene/weddings/a9634/versailles-wedding/">recent <em>T&amp;C</em> column</a> of Leena&rsquo;s showcases a party for the wedding of automotive executive Carlos Ghosn and his wife Carole at Versailles, inspired by Sofia Coppola&rsquo;s <em>Marie Antoinette</em>, complete with actors in 18th-century French costumes. This is but one example of the not terribly self-aware &ldquo;let them eat cake&rdquo; weddings of recent years.</p>

<p>The 2015 wedding weekend of Getty heir Joseph Getty and jewelry designer Sabine Ghanem included a <a href="http://www.vogue.com/article/sabine-ghanem-joseph-getty-wedding-rome-italy"><em>Liaisons Dangereuses </em>party</a> in which guests themselves dressed like French aristocracy. Kanye West and Kim Kardashian chose Versailles as the site of their 2014 rehearsal dinner and arrived in an opulent horse-drawn carriage, with at least some staff <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/05/24/kim-kardashian-wedding-versailles_n_7431304.html">in period dress</a>. Ten years earlier, the alleged $55 million wedding of Amit Bhatia and Vanisha Mittal, the daughter of an Indian steel magnate, <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3830009.stm">made headlines</a> for, among other extravagances, an engagement ceremony at Versailles.</p>
<figure class="wp-block-pullquote alignleft"><blockquote><p>“At the end of the day, I&#039;m a capitalist. That doesn&#039;t mean you lie, steal, kill people to make money, but it means that you believe that you&#039;re allowed to <em>make</em> money.” </p></blockquote></figure>
<p>Sometimes these numbers seem not only obscene ($55 million!), but borderline impossible. The 2015 wedding of Chinese actress-slash-model-slash-singer Angelababy <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/kristintablang/2015/10/19/inside-chinese-star-angelababy-huang-xiaoming-31-million-wedding-shanghai/#ec2af902c98e">received attention</a> for its supposed $31 million price tag. Last year, Said Gutseriev, the son of a Russian oligarch, got married to Khadija Uzhakhova in what was called the <a href="http://news.nationalpost.com/news/world/a-1-3-billion-wedding-for-a-russian-tycoons-son-included-a-jewel-encrusted-gown-and-a-j-lo-performance">world&rsquo;s first billion-dollar wedding</a>. There are no figures or sources to back this claim up, but there were performances by Enrique Iglesias, Jennifer Lopez, and Sting, and photos show the bride in a crystal-encrusted Elie Saab gown, a nine-tier cake, and an unbelievable amount of flowers.</p>

<p>The <a href="http://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&amp;objectid=11614597"><em>New Zealand Herald</em></a> reached out to Sarah about the wedding, and she told the paper she was &ldquo;outraged&rdquo; people thought she might have planned it. She described the event as an &ldquo;absolute monstrosity.&rdquo;</p>
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<p class="has-drop-cap">There&rsquo;s money in the luxury planning business, but not as much as you would think, says Marcy. &ldquo;It&#8217;s definitely a struggle to get what we&#8217;re worth. All of us. We all say the same thing. Every single one of our clients after the fact says, &lsquo;Oh my God, I would have paid you double or triple.&rsquo; It&#8217;s very hard to explain what it is that you do.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s easy to understand what a florist does, a caterer, the musicians. &ldquo;But planning is so ephemeral that it&#8217;s very hard to get paid for it. Now I just bring out one of my clients&rsquo; books, and I go, &lsquo;Here, look at this. These are the first 47 venues we looked at&rsquo; so people can visualize what they&#8217;re paying for.&rdquo;</p>

<p>When she was making a name for herself early in her career, Marcy used to take commission from vendors, then she moved to a flat fee. Now she charges the client a percentage of everything she touches &mdash; between 18 and 20 percent of the total budget &mdash; because events that clients imagined as small when they were starting out had a way of ballooning way past budget. A wedding that begins with a $500,000 budget and climbs to $1 million is much more work than the original estimate suggests.</p>
<img src="https://platform.vox.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/chorus/uploads/chorus_asset/file/8636251/image___Carla_Ten_Eyck_for_Sarah_Haywood_Wedding_Design_1198_Edit_copy.jpg?quality=90&#038;strip=all&#038;crop=0,0,100,100" alt="" title="" data-has-syndication-rights="1" data-caption="A horse-drawn carriage provided transportation for the bride and groom at a wedding Sarah Haywood planned at a British castle. | Photo: Carla Ten Eyck for Sarah Haywood" data-portal-copyright="Photo: Carla Ten Eyck for Sarah Haywood" />
<p>Sarah charges 15 percent of the event budget with a minimum fee, and caps it when a client spends over a certain amount. Preston has two payment models, one for weddings in the US and one for international events. &ldquo;The national model, all that&#8217;s charged is the design fee,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;And because flowers are my passion, I usually do the flowers and I clearly mark that up and make a profit.&rdquo; Those design fees are between $100,000 and $500,000, and include blueprints, renderings, and execution plans.</p>

<p>Of course, things can go awry when this kind of money is involved. Another big-name planner in Marcy&rsquo;s circle, Los Angeles&ndash;based Mindy Weiss, sued a couple for more than $340,000 in unpaid fees and expenses for their daughter&rsquo;s wedding, adding another $1.4 million in damages. As reported by the <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/an-over-the-top-weddings-ugly-aftermath/2017/03/16/780928ac-04e4-11e7-b9fa-ed727b644a0b_story.html?utm_term=.eedb79063a0b"><em>Washington Post</em></a>, the story is messy, with Joan and Bernard Carl claiming they gave Mindy a million-dollar budget, which Mindy exceeded by as much as $2 million. Mindy claims they never set a cap on her spending. For planners at this echelon, not having a hard upper-limit budget isn&rsquo;t unusual.</p>

<p>Marcy and Mindy and the rest of their friends often go up against one another for the same jobs. The ultrarich are not lacking for choice when it comes to who can plan their big events, though this was not always the case.</p>

<p>&ldquo;When I started, there were two or three other people,&rdquo; says Marcy. &ldquo;They were venomous. Now, when we see each other, we all hug and kiss.&rdquo; Marcy says young planners, whom she calls &ldquo;plannettes,&rdquo; are na&iuml;ve. Until you&rsquo;re at a certain level &mdash; that highest level &mdash;&nbsp;it can be cutthroat. Once you&rsquo;ve reached that echelon though, the competitiveness dissipates. The best planners all know one another, they help one another. They know how good you are, and you know how good they are too.</p>
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<p>Marcy loves the challenge of marketing herself, of being known. Before she had money for a publicist, she would call up the <em>New York Times</em> herself and pitch stories. She&rsquo;s become addicted to Instagram, and uses her <a href="https://www.instagram.com/marcyblum/">25,000 followers</a> as a bargaining tool. &#8220;Listen,&rdquo; she tells vendors, &ldquo;if my client paid full price, I can either include you or not, at our discretion. But, if you gave us a break for it, then I&#8217;ll make sure that you&#8217;re hashtagged.&#8221;</p>

<p>Which brings us to all the professionals that planners and designers hire. Caterers, calligraphers, carpet-layers: There&rsquo;s an entire ecosystem of luxury wedding vendors, one that&rsquo;s close-knit and seemingly impervious to larger market forces.</p>

<p>&rdquo;I watched in the &#8217;08&ndash;&#8217;09 recession when even the wealthy were pulling back on budgets because they didn&#8217;t want to seem ostentatious,&rdquo; says John Dolan, a photographer who has shot the weddings of celebrities (Will Smith, Matt Lauer, and Jennifer Lopez among them) and noncelebrities alike for more than 20 years. &ldquo;But I know all the vendors who have been able to afford to buy a house because of the wedding economy, from the waiters to the letterpress invitations. There&#8217;s a microeconomy that has been really good to me, and to a lot of people &mdash; and we all know each other.&rdquo;</p>
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<p class="has-drop-cap">We the people, the 0.01 percent ultrarich and the 99.9 percent not, are sold a fantasy of the dream wedding. It&rsquo;s a heteronormative fantasy, a traditional one. It&rsquo;s expensive, even for those of us with the least means. When money is no object, the most venerated of life cycle events can become warped, cloaked in extravagance, but the bones, they&rsquo;re familiar.</p>

<p>There are always questions of intention when it comes to weddings. Who is this for, really? For the couple? For the parents? Is it for the community? Is it, in the year of our Lord 2017, for the likes? There can be an extra layer of skepticism when the bill climbs into the millions. There is one-upmanship on the grandest scale; there are hangers-on.</p>

<p>&ldquo;I&#8217;ve observed that with the really, really wealthy,&rdquo; says Sarah, &ldquo;there are a lot of people around them who are on the make, sometimes on their own staff. The people around them aren&#8217;t necessarily friends. It&#8217;s not always the case. I mean there are some incredibly wealthy people who <em>are</em> surrounded by friends or great, fun people. One size doesn&#8217;t fit all. But it does come with great responsibility. My observation is that it&#8217;s a very lonely life.&rdquo;</p>

<p class="has-end-mark">And perhaps it&rsquo;s made less lonely when you have someone to share it with. A person you join in holy matrimony while wearing a couture gown at a castle in Tuscany, sipping Champagne poured from a Jeroboam of Cristal, swaying along to Elton John serenading you, yours, and a few hundred of your closest friends.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.racked.com/authors/julia-rubin"><em>Julia Rubin</em></a><em> is Racked&rsquo;s executive editor.</em></p>

<p><em>Editor: </em><a href="https://www.racked.com/authors/meredith-haggerty"><em>Meredith Haggerty</em></a><br><em>Copy editor: </em><a href="https://twitter.com/heathertwit"><em>Heather Schwedel</em></a></p>
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