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Dating, friendships, colleagues, and more — Vox explores how to think about relationships in life.

Life
Can kids still have lazy summers?Can kids still have lazy summers?
Life

The delirious boredom you remember from childhood might not exist anymore.

By Anna North
Culture
Why is everyone crashing out?Why is everyone crashing out?
Culture

Gen Z is embracing emotional distress — with a new name.

By Kyndall Cunningham
Even Better
I don’t like my in-laws. Is that a problem?I don’t like my in-laws. Is that a problem?
Even Better

What do you actually owe your partner’s family?

By Allie Volpe
What broke teenage romance?
Even Better

Teenagers today are dating less than ever. What’s really happening?

By Charley Locke
Future Perfect
The stunning reversal of humanity’s oldest biasThe stunning reversal of humanity’s oldest bias
Future Perfect

Everyone wants to be a girl dad now.

By Bryan Walsh
Life
Parents can’t control when their daughters start getting their periods…can they?Parents can’t control when their daughters start getting their periods…can they?
Life

Girls are getting their periods earlier. Parents are trying to take control.

By Anna North
Even Better
The surprising way romance may affect your friendshipsThe surprising way romance may affect your friendships
Even Better

Is it inevitable that your close friendships suffer when you enter a new relationship?

By Allie Volpe
Future Perfect
First comes marriage. Then comes a flirtatious colleague.First comes marriage. Then comes a flirtatious colleague.
Future Perfect

What to do when your partner wants an open marriage and you don’t.

By Sigal Samuel
Even Better
Beware of this silent, seething relationship-killerBeware of this silent, seething relationship-killer
Even Better

Suddenly can’t stand the way your partner chews? That’s resentment.

By Allie Volpe
Life
What if you don’t have a best friend?What if you don’t have a best friend?
Life

Teens face a lot of pressure around the idea of best-friendship.

By Anna North
Even Better
Relationships are hard work. Right?Relationships are hard work. Right?
Even Better

How much effort is too much to keep your romance afloat?

By Allie Volpe
Even Better
The secret to actually trusting each otherThe secret to actually trusting each other
Even Better

Americans are losing faith in their friends and neighbors. Here’s how to reverse course.

By Allie Volpe
Future Perfect
My family has money but doesn’t give to charity. How do I challenge them without being weird?My family has money but doesn’t give to charity. How do I challenge them without being weird?
Future Perfect

How to get parents and friends to get serious about doing good.

By Sigal Samuel
Even Better
Gen Z misery, explained in one chartGen Z misery, explained in one chart
Even Better

Young adults from around the world are struggling.

By Allie Volpe
The internet is littered with advice. What’s it doing to your brain?
Even Better

How to contend with an onslaught of guidance in an uncertain, lonely world.

By Eliza Brooke
Even Better
Don’t let a messy house stop you from hostingDon’t let a messy house stop you from hosting
Even Better

No one cares as much as you do.

By Allie Volpe
Relationships
“Dry texting,” explained“Dry texting,” explained
Relationships

Are phones making teens more conflict-averse?

By Anna North
Explain It to Me
You’ve found a lost relative. Now what?You’ve found a lost relative. Now what?
Explain It to Me

How to navigate finding family in an age of at-home DNA testing.

By Jonquilyn Hill
Future Perfect
Progressives should care that the global population is set to fallProgressives should care that the global population is set to fall
Future Perfect

Don’t let polarization distract you from one of the most important issues the world faces.

By Kelsey Piper
Today, Explained podcast
Love on the Spectrum stars call on RFK Jr. to resignLove on the Spectrum stars call on RFK Jr. to resign
Podcast
Today, Explained podcast

Two cast members of the hit Netflix reality TV show on what the HHS secretary misunderstands about autism.

By Avishay Artsy
Relationships
What the worst first dates all have in common What the worst first dates all have in common 
Relationships

Here’s why your potentially romantic meetup actually sucks.

By Alex Abad-Santos
Policy
The Trump-approved policy that’s actually good for kidsThe Trump-approved policy that’s actually good for kids
Policy

Pro-natalists want America having more babies — but only one of their proposals helps actual children.

By Anna North
Even Better
You grew up with your siblings. Do you need to be friends, too?You grew up with your siblings. Do you need to be friends, too?
Even Better

The loving, aggravating, inescapable relationship that lasts a lifetime.

By Allie Volpe
Even Better
When friendship means scheduling a dinner date four weeks outWhen friendship means scheduling a dinner date four weeks out
Even Better

Super-schedulers have a solution for our busy lives. Not everyone is a fan.

By Allie Volpe
My boyfriend wants to pay my expenses. Am I a bad feminist if I let him?
Future Perfect

I value my independence and don’t want my partner to end up controlling me.

By Sigal Samuel
Future Perfect
The rise of chatbot “friends”The rise of chatbot “friends”
Future Perfect

Wait, what is a friend anyway?

By Angela Chen
Explain It to Me
The only generation not in a sex recessionThe only generation not in a sex recession
Explain It to Me

It’s not just in the movies. Gen X women are having the best sex of their lives.

By Jonquilyn Hill
Life
The surprisingly simple reason kids have imaginary friendsThe surprisingly simple reason kids have imaginary friends
Life

If your child starts talking to a can of tomato paste, don’t worry.

By Anna North
Even Better
Americans’ increasing antisocial habits, explained in one chartAmericans’ increasing antisocial habits, explained in one chart
Even Better

More people report eating their meals alone. Here’s why that matters.

By Allie Volpe
Advice
Introverts should (sometimes) act like extrovertsIntroverts should (sometimes) act like extroverts
Advice

Trust me: I tried it.

By Olga Khazan
Explain It to Me
Can men get better at dating?Can men get better at dating?
Explain It to Me

A dating coach for men on the state of relationships.

By Hady Mawajdeh
Even Better
The problem with dating? Your standards might be too high.The problem with dating? Your standards might be too high.
Even Better

How to make sure your expectations for a partner are realistic.

By Allie Volpe
Even Better
Validate me, please!Validate me, please!
Even Better

Why other people’s approval is so intoxicating.

By Allie Volpe
Future Perfect
I don’t want to be an angry person like my mom. Is it inevitable?I don’t want to be an angry person like my mom. Is it inevitable?
Future Perfect

I feel intense guilt after getting angry. And if I shrug off that guilt, I worry I’ll become a bad person.

By Sigal Samuel
Books
The weird, joyful book that’s getting me through this winterThe weird, joyful book that’s getting me through this winter
Books

Taking life lessons from an anthropomorphic owl.

By Anna North
Even Better
Want a better social life? Try these easy habits.Want a better social life? Try these easy habits.
Even Better

Why you should aim for one meaningful social interaction a day and other strategies for improving your “social biome.”

By Allie Volpe
Explain It to Me
Why are young men so hopeless at dating?Why are young men so hopeless at dating?
Explain It to Me

The rules of romance have changed. Can men keep up?

By Allie Volpe
Even Better
My 93-year-old grandma has the best advice for throwing a great partyMy 93-year-old grandma has the best advice for throwing a great party
Even Better

It turns out the most enjoyable gatherings can be totally spontaneous.

By Allie Volpe
Even Better
“Protecting your peace” can kill your friendships“Protecting your peace” can kill your friendships
Even Better

Frictionless relationships are just a fantasy.

By Allie Volpe
My nail-biting quest for confidence
Even Better

I wanted to be confident. Then I started having doubts.

By Rachel Sugar