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Dating, friendships, colleagues, and more — Vox explores how to think about relationships in life.

How to make dating suck less
Even Better

Expert-approved advice that’ll help you rethink romance.

By Allie Volpe
Culture
Gossip is good. Tattling is bad.Gossip is good. Tattling is bad.
Culture

Can all the TikTok tattletales please calm down?

By Alex Abad-Santos
Should you be friends with your kids?
Even Better

Parents can have a great relationship with their kids without being their friend.

By Allie Volpe
How birthdays became week-long blowouts
Even Better

If your friends have started throwing lavish, time-intensive birthday celebrations, here’s how to navigate.

By Allie Volpe
What will love and death mean in the age of machine intelligence?
The rise of artificial intelligence, explained

We already rely on AI to find our soulmate, and soon we might use it to hack death. But we risk losing what it means to be human.

By Tahmima Anam
Want to make more friends? Start a club.
Even Better

An idea for an era when Americans are lonelier than ever.

By Rebecca Jennings
The limits of therapy-speak
Even Better

Why it’s so appealing to use pop psychology terms — and when to stop.

By Allie Volpe
How much social interaction do you actually need?
Even Better

You don’t need to make new friends to have a fulfilling social life.

By Allie Volpe
The case for shame
Even Better

Maybe the world doesn’t need to know every thought you’ve ever had.

By Niloufar Haidari
How to talk about pregnancy loss
Even Better

Whether it’s your own or someone else’s.

By Allie Volpe
How to find your people
Even Better

An adapted excerpt from Lane Moore’s You Will Find Your People: How to Make Meaningful Friendships as an Adult.

By Lane Moore
Policy
Where are all the apartments for families?Where are all the apartments for families?
Policy

Cities are finally starting to build more housing — but not for people with kids.

By Rachel Cohen Booth
Small acts of kindness matter more than you think
Even Better

Text a friend, write a thank-you note, compliment a stranger — people appreciate these gestures.

By Allie Volpe
9 easy ways to make your life a little better
Even Better

Treat sleep like it’s a friend, make a single-item to-do list, and other unexpected ways to improve your life.

By Allie Volpe
How to foster your purpose wherever you are in life
Even Better

A non-stressful approach to figuring out what guides you.

By Allie Volpe
Everyone messes up. Here’s how to say you’re sorry.
Even Better

It’s easy to give a bad apology. Here’s how to give a good one.

By Allie Volpe
How (and why) to stop holding a grudge
Life

You can minimize the pain of a grudge, even if you’re not ready to forgive.

By Allie Volpe
How to offer help when you don’t know what to say
Even Better

Be validating and specific when extending a helping hand.

By Allie Volpe
Future Perfect
We admire these do-gooders. We just don’t want to date them.We admire these do-gooders. We just don’t want to date them.
Future Perfect

A neuroscientist’s studies show that altruism isn’t always attractive.

By Sigal Samuel
From BTS fandom to video games: How 4 new friendships formed during lockdown
Culture

“It never would have happened if it weren’t for the pandemic.”

By Rachel Ramirez
Friendships are crucial to survive the isolation of the coronavirus pandemic. Why do they feel so hard?
Life

This period of social distancing may increase our loneliness, but it’s really only exacerbating a problem that’s been building for years.

By Aubrey Hirsch
Science
How our housing choices make adult friendships more difficultHow our housing choices make adult friendships more difficult
Science

Hard to mix and mingle when you live in an auto-dependent suburban castle.

By David Roberts
I knew dating as a widow would be difficult. But the hardest part surprised me.
Relationships

After my husband died, I didn’t know how to date.

By Marjorie Brimley
Life
What I wish my friends had said to me after my mom diedWhat I wish my friends had said to me after my mom died
Life

It’s hard to know what to say to a friend who is grieving. Here’s what you should keep in mind.

By Chelsea Gray
Culture
Why people can’t stop shipping Canadian ice dancers Tessa Virtue and Scott MoirWhy people can’t stop shipping Canadian ice dancers Tessa Virtue and Scott Moir
Culture

Ice dance is about selling romance. Olympic gold medalists Virtue and Moir are brilliant marketers.

By Aja Romano
Science
Tinder and Grindr don’t want to talk about their role in rising STDsTinder and Grindr don’t want to talk about their role in rising STDs
Science

Health experts see online dating as the new frontier for STD prevention — but major sites don’t want to engage.

By Julia Belluz
Life
When I get a phone call, I assume someone died or is pregnantWhen I get a phone call, I assume someone died or is pregnant
Life

But that’s not a bad thing!

By Kate Shellnutt
Life
I did speed dating — for friendship. Then I realized meeting people is the easy part.I did speed dating — for friendship. Then I realized meeting people is the easy part.
Life

True friendship forces you to keep coming back, even when it’s hard. Am I willing to do that?

By Eva Harder
Culture
Ghosting, the easiest way to dump someone, explainedGhosting, the easiest way to dump someone, explained
Culture

Everyone has a ghost story.

By Alex Abad-Santos
Culture
The friendship plot is replacing the marriage plot. Crazy Ex-Girlfriend subverts both.The friendship plot is replacing the marriage plot. Crazy Ex-Girlfriend subverts both.
Culture

Why Paula and Rebecca are the true love story of Crazy Ex-Girlfriend.

By Constance Grady
Why 30 is the decade friends disappear — and what to do about it
Life

At 30, I’m not anxious about my biological clock or my career. I’m anxious about making friends.

By Kate Shellnutt
The Girls is a beautiful new novel about cults and teen girl friendships
Culture

Emma Cline’s terrific debut novel reads like My So-Called Life with cults. That’s a compliment.

By Constance Grady
Life
Dating app Hinge tested 100-plus opening lines. These got the most replies.Dating app Hinge tested 100-plus opening lines. These got the most replies.
Life

“Two truths and a lie”: surprisingly effective!

By Dylan Matthews
What breaking up with my best friend taught me about male friendship
Features

Male friendships are supposed to be simple. Mine wasn’t.

By Ben Philippe
Why daughters fight with their mothers
Features

A Georgetown linguist analyzed hours’ worth of conversations between mothers and their adult daughters. Here’s what she found out.

By Eleanor Barkhorn
The Rules, 20 years later: Why do men and women still follow the same old dating script?
Features

The stubborn, perplexing, enduring power of old-fashioned courtship rituals.

By Leigh Anderson
Why your family drives you crazy
Family

Being comfortable around your relatives can actually lead to more conflict.

By Emily Esfahani Smith